What You Are Missing ...

What you are missing

Another of rougedmount's posts; her description demands awe. Her insights are powerful because they are so very deeply true that one senses reverence for them, and that of which she speaks. Her eloquence is not for debate but for sheer enjoyment.
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You can not mimic the weight of a heavy cock
Not by silicone artifice or confident projection
The thick, weightiness is deeply satisfying
Not just to see, but to feel on and in your body
A toy does not contain the heat of a real cock
It does not have that impossibly hard steel
Wrapped in the silken movement of a mans skin

Heated flesh tasting faintly of salt and smelling of his intimate musk
A toy is inanimate and does not have the throbbing heartbeat within
The twitching arousal expressing excitement
A woman can feel the engorgement rise or decrease
When a man is tightly ensconced inside of her body
We can feel you sweetly swelling inside of us
Filling us to the point where we are forced to accommodate it
Thinking our bodies can’t and then feeling that indeed, we can

A big and heavy cock parts your intimate areas
It does not enter you, it opens you
When a large erection pushes inside of you
Past the fragile and delicate folds of your secret places
It literally takes your breath away for a moment

Your body becomes an extension of his
It is perfect in the same way as the aorta joins the heart
Or how fingers extend from the palm of a hand
It is beautiful in the way of two separate things merging into one
So that there is no differentiation of where one thing ends
And the other thing begins, even though they are separate in form and function
Nothing can mimic the emotional surrender
Of being rent apart by the impossible heat of a thick and heavy cock
Your body barely accepts it, accommodates it willingly, then finally craves it

It is how someone can feel a phantom limb when it’s missing
When you are entered by the massive erection of a well endowed man
It completes your own female body with a sigh of welcome completion
Nothing else can make you feel this complete surrender
It is the combination of size, thickness, heat, silk and steel
Which make the magic of the union work exactly as it was meant to
It is the correct combination of all the ingredients

The sight and weight of those heavy swinging testicles
Delicious orbs that move on their own volition
With the grace and beauty of an undulating sea
Delivering a heady smack upon sensitive feminine skin
As they provide the base from which hope eternal springs forth
In the proud strength of a mighty oak stand
They promise power and expulsion of life sustaining fluids
Copious amount of tangy cream to spray in wide legged prowess and pride
Seminal fluids seeping and dripping from the wide bulbous head
Of an engorged and fevered shaft proving arousal and promising everything
In the sateen shine of its pearled liquid silver

The sight of a magnificent engorgement is wondrous
Comparing the endowments between the have and have not’s of men
Is like viewing a gelded child’s pony and a Percheron Stallion
You eye is drawn between one then the other
Tracing not only the lines of muscle and brawn
But drawn continuously towards their groin and the infinite differences
To wonder at the glorious evolution of the male form
That thickened appendage of savage delight and torment

And there is no choice between them
It was made by the evolution of the species
My female body craves the superior specimen
The hyper masculine male of plenty
His pendulous glory of sinew and turgid muscle
Makes your womb clench in immediate need and awareness

You can feel the lengthening of your secret passage
And the silken veils of modesty dampen with desire
As your body prepares itself to be taken by the mighty stallion
You have a man of substance between your thighs
He is joined to the essence that marks you as woman

He is the fallen angel who shall make you sing
As he carries your exhausted and battered body
To wherever he chooses to take you
His body controls yours, his power surging through his cock
Reclaiming the part of him contained within you
You do not have sex with a well endowed man
You are taken by him and remade into something better

An orgasm can be claimed by anyone who can follow directions
It is a simple linear and predictable outcome to manual stimulation
But a man with a cock, with weight and size, gives you many
He makes your body respond with no effort or will of your own
His wand is the perfect instrument to wield his magic
As he brings your body to such intense complexity of feelings
That you orgasm repeatedly and when it suites him to make you

Lost, you lose control again and again until you are mindless
You become nothing but sensations and it is only the weight of his cock
That anchors your mind to your body and your body to earth
If you remember sexual encounters with prior lovers
Then he was not well endowed
If he had been blessed with a glorious cock
You would recall a sexual experience, instead
The difference between a penis and a cock
Is simply, everything

If you have never experienced a well hung man
Who is skilled in matters of sexual gratification,
Then all the potential of what may have been, is lost
If you have settled for a man with a small penis
Then you have made enormous compromises
And had to negotiate a sexual relationship
Rather than being immersed in a natural one
You have had discussions and revelations
And worked through issues and found ways to compensate
Rather than being unable to even speak, let alone think

Being with a man who is cock heavy
Means that your body reaches its throbbing sexual potential
Rather than barely passing to the bare minimum possible
If you settle for monogamy to a man with a small penis
Then you will never know what you are missing
Because as much as you try explain color to someone who is blind
They only understand the concept of a color palette
By using their other senses to try and make sense of it.
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Clever

Endowments

Intelligent and gifted with a singular ability to perceive and articulate what others feel but may not always express with words, rougedmount's blog contains many outstanding posts. One of these is reproduced here.
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endowments matter

universities get them, businesses get them, people who are worthy of the accolades get them.

they are given in increments where allocation of larger ones are envied and respected

everyone is generally satisfied with what they were given, though wish they were given just a little more

money, success, anything quantifiable or measurable, men seem to compare and rank themselves

cock size is no different

the have’s and have not’s look at each other knowingly and make assumptions based on the initial analysis

regardless of merit or functionality, the larger the endowment of a man, the more impressive it is

not just to him and how he caries himself, but in how other’s perceive him as well
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Like Crack, the Cuckold Fetish Hits HARD.

Sisters:

Several things bring wives here.

Some are hurt and want help.
Some are curious and want answers.
Some are fascinated and want to learn more.

Some have no idea why they're reading this except that a husband or suitor asked them to do so.

Reactions are equally diverse.

Disbelief -- are you even serious?!
Insult -- why do you think I ever would?!
Outrage -- whatever makes you want that?!
Indignation -- who do you think I am?!
Disrespect -- what do you think I am?!
Confusion -- why do you want such a thing?!

Maybe you thought that your relationship was very satisfying for both of you. Come to find out, hubby isn't so happy after all. And what he's asking, you never imagined! 

Your husband is asking you to cuckold him.
He WANTS you to have sex ... with OTHER men.

Honey if this is where things are, understand something right now.

Once your man gets a taste for the cuckold fetish, once he admits his yearning to himself, once he pushes through his angst to embrace the pleasure the idea gives him, once he learns that OTHER men's interest in you so totally arouses and enthralls him as to crush his resistance and MAKE him completely helpless to intervene -- that's it.

Once he realizes that he loves and needs it, it’s over.

There is little you or anyone else can do to save him.

Once this fetish defines his imaginative, psycho-sexual response, he will never understand why ANY woman would resist such an arrangement.

Even if he sometimes agonizes over the implications of it, he will never stop wanting to convince you to cuckold him.

Even if he never mentions it again, it will be there. Even if you never see it, it will be eating, goading, tempting him. Always.

Believe it, Honey: by the time hubby works up the nerve to raise this with you, he has saturated his mind with cuckold blogs, cuckold images and cuckold stories. He may have followed these things for months or even years. It now controls his response.

Translation?

He's HOOKED.

Straight vanilla sex with you will NEVER fill the void. He may enjoy 'one on one' intimacy, but he will NEVER again be fully satisfied with that alone. Never.

The cuckold fetish hits HARD. Like crack. Even if your man sets this aside for a time, it will always be there.

Truth is girl, husbands often to go through purges. They think they've wheeled the fetish to the curb like so much trash. But the disposition is still there.

Always.

Just waiting.

It's waiting for a trigger. And in weeks, months or years, opportunity or circumstances will 'trigger' that disposition!

Something will set it off and he'll fall off the wagon. When it does, his cuckold tendency will reignite a whirlwind of cuckold desire.

In a solitary instant, he will succumb to his latent cuckold fetish! He will return to all his favorite cuckold blogs. He'll be more convinced than ever that there is no better sex for you on the planet--and absolutely no better sexual high for him!

Like never before, he will be completely convinced of the utter beauty, rightness and goodness of it. His desire for you to spend yourself in long, slow, pumping, juicing, throbbing orgasms on a very well-endowed man will burn in him with sacred vengeance!

Absolutely nothing on this earth you or anyone else can do will stop it.

Not. A. Thing.

The truth is Honey, it matters not whether it makes sense to you. What matters is that this makes TOTAL sense to him. This is his new reality.

So here is the question: ‘what will be your next move.’

Basically, you have three options.

1. You can resist it.
2. You can ignore it.
3. You can accept it.

It's easy to rule out option 3 first and say, "but I'd never do that!'

Yet each option has consequences.

Options 1 and 2: 

• Offer NO WAY to move past this relational roadblock.
• Block communication between you and your husband.
• Guarantee frustration and resentment for you both.

Refusing option 3 retreats back to 1 and 2.
But 1 and 2 are not 'resolutions' at all.

That's where option 3 becomes VERY compelling.

Why?

Because Honey, his cuckold fetish isn't going to quit or leave.

Not ever! 

That's the rub. 

That's the strength of option 3. 

Only option 3 pushes through this issue to move toward marital maturation. That is the only option with a difference. Since his cuckold desire ISN'T going to change...

So you can stay stuck on 1 or 2 permanently, OR

You can move on to 3.

The choice is yours.
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If you're trying to figure out what to do with this, here's a plan. Print this page. When you're alone together [or better, if he brings it up] give him this to read.
 
When he sees where it’s going, he’ll be pretty intensely involved. That is to your advantage. While he is reading, realizing that you’re onto him, wondering what you’re thinking and what he’ll say next, you get to watch him like a hawk, for guilt or arousal, for dread or comprehension.
 
As soon as he’s finished, have your questions ready. Use them before he has a chance to recover his footing. Demand to get it from him. ‘This is true, isn’t it; that’s what all this has been about...isn’t it.’ Make sure that he hears this NOT as a question [is this true...] but as a statement YOU know is true, and you’re going to see him ADMIT it to you.
 
If he tries to back out, close off his escape. TELL him that he’s hooked. MAKE him admit it, that he is helpless to stop fantasizing about it and to be aroused by it. Don’t let him off because he promises to change! Point out that men often undergo ‘purges,’ but are drawn back to this like a moth to a flame. Tell him that you know that he can’t help but be aroused by this. You know that it is only a matter of time before something sets off his cuckold fantasizing again.
 
MAKE him admit these things.
 
When he does, it’s likely that he will be very vulnerable. Likely, he'll want to know where he stands with you, and whether this changes thing between you. Remember that this may be emotionally challenging for him. But don’t apologize for what his nagging brought on him. And you don’t have to answer him. 

You can say that ‘I need time to think through these things...’

This means that you have control of the conversation. After all, with his weeks, months or even years of coaxing you to consider cuckolding him, he can hardly deny you that.

If he wants to know where you found this, you can decide whether to answer. If you want, you can say simply, `...this is the information age; women talk. ’
 
This discussion can alter the sexual power balance in your relationship significantly. It can put you in position to shape where the relationship goes. You now have an opportunity to consider what this means, what you do or don’t want, and how you might proceed.