After a rocky start, this 'wife caught cheating' story turns and goes totally right! The telling of it shows that her husband was a goner from the start. Lightly edited for easier reading.
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I have been married for 5 years. I caught her cheating early on .. which I quickly broke up and it almost ended our relationship. We worked it out. BUT...
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| People talk about life's 'defining moments.' This wife is having one at this instant. Her husband too. How can it ever be the same after this? |
What I saw in those 10 seconds walking in on them... slowed down in my head over the next few months.
When I opened the door she was riding his huge dick.... fucking the holy shit out of him...
When I came in, I saw her from her ass and back angle. The dick she was fucking was simply huge. And yet she took all of him.
I Remember ...
'...I remember her bouncing hard!'
'... Her back ... hair... ass ... sweated so profusely .... it honestly looked as if someone poured a glass of water down her back....'
'... the bed was soaked.'
'... her screaming "fuck me!"''
... MY WIFE... riding a dick.... talking dirty....in my bed.'
Thoughts that Hound You ...
'I would think about that day in and day out... I jacked off to that scene probably 100 times. I would jack off at work, jack off while she slept next to me, jack off in the shower .... my wife ... that dick ... my bed...'
'We'd have sex... That image would come to mind and BANG .... I was done! I couldn't hold it after remembering that .... Not even for 20 seconds ....
'I had to tell her that I wasn't upset with her... that I wanted her to continue fucking men... Finally I talked her into letting me watch one time. One time turned into weekly planning. Soon she started planning on her own. I fell in love with humiliation and chastity. She rather took over the Dominant role.'
'My question is, she now told me she wants me to watch her with my co-workers and my closest friends...Her desire to humiliate me is strong and I enjoy it. But is this too far?'
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Sure, the sex that he saw was very intense; but so was his reaction to what he saw. And that reaction was sustained long term.
It wasn't just the shock of his wife with another man. It was that the sex itself was so shockingly powerful, shockingly sexual, and above all, so shockingly different.
For the first time, he got to see his wife having sex from a third person perspective. And what he saw was sex that was excruciatingly sexual and unimaginably beautiful.
The intensity of it and her complete abandonment to his huge penis, was shocking. She more than succumbed; she surrendered completely. She ravished herself on his huge endowment.
And she did this early in their marriage.
Cuckold's Journey Begins...
That's telling in itself. But see what it did for this husband! He ended their session very quickly, yes, but nothing about this event ended there.
Oh no, that was only the beginning.
Month after month after month, he 'lived in the moment' of what he saw! He could not stop it. He could not escape it. He could not ignore it. He could not curb it. He could not contain it in some corner of his mind.
Instead, the power and intensity of that moment worked in him. It did not diminish in strength but grew and increasingly controlled him. It became irresistible.
Most astonishing of all is the WAY this changed his thinking, wants, desires and needs!
It Was the Defining Moment...
Years later, he recalls and describes that instant with the same, vivid clarity as when he opened the door and saw it for the first time. Every minute detail burned into his memory indelibly.
Everything. Changed. Forever.
This was a defining moment. The instant he saw his bride plunge herself on that huge penis, it was a 'done deal.' Now it was just a matter of time and processing.
Returning him to that same scene day in and day out, his own mind continually made him a voyeur to his own cuckolding!
What he first saw as profane act very quickly became a holy ritual, one that commanded and elicited his helpless arousal and acknowledgment, and utterly worshipful surrender.
The Strangest Thing...
That scene affected his sex life with his wife. It did not make him impotent but hyper-sexual. It demanded and received his unqualified and urgent participation. It redefined his psycho-sexual response.
He admits that he could not help ejaculating prematurely. It dominated his imagination, MAKING him see and relive that scene over and over and over again endlessly. It made him fantasize incessantly, aroused him continuously, excited him uncontrollably and DROVE him to masturbate with furious compulsively.
It happened morning, noon and night, day after day, week, after week, month after month. His wife, that penis, his bed. He was helpless to stop it or even to try to resist it. What he saw refused to be denied. It MADE him ADMIT and SUBMIT to cuckold desire.
Whatever else he MIGHT have expected, it wasn't this: that the ultimate and irresistibly compelling aphrodisiac would be none other than his wife's impalement on a huge penis!
Nature's Curious Ways...
Yet in the end, he had no choice.
Fantasizing uncontrollably, with arousal raging every waking hour, his response was beyond his control. After months and months of it, he was done. He had no fight left in him. He found that he could not live as he was. Helpless to resist, with no end in sight, he was coerced to admit that he was beaten. How else could he deal with it?
Continuous, helpless arousal drew him into the passion and sensuality of his wife and her lover. It forced the honesty from him. It forced him to speak the truth. He had no choice. He as much as his wife acknowledged the power of the situation, and of that enormous penis -- not only over her, but over his ability to resist the meaning and image of what he saw! In the end, it reduced them both. In the end, it seduced them both.
'I had to tell her that I wasn't upset with her...that I wanted her to continue fucking men.'
What he first ended quickly become irresistible. He not only consents, he craves that other men serve his wife. He not only needs it, he ASKS his wife to continue sexing other men. Clearly, she wasn't the only one seduced. The huge penis that seduced and mastered his wife equally reduced and mastered him!
And it took all of 10 seconds.
The rest was just time and processing.
Another Beguiling Point...
Forgiving his wife's 'infidelity' was remarkable. His admission that it powerfully aroused him was right, good and courageous. But another intriguing matter needs exploration.
Her response to that huge penis brought him into a state of near constant arousal. The very extremity and constancy of his arousal became his tacit approval of her dalliances.
If her impalement on that huge penis made HIS arousal rage, on what ground can he deny her the same? He is helpless to resist the eroticism of that moment. If he takes extreme pleasure in seeing it, how can he deny HER right to the same extreme, erotic pleasure?
His arousal not only effectively quashed his capacity for effective resistance; it also took away any argument he might otherwise make against it!
So on one hand, his arousal devastated his ability to resist his cuckolding; on the other hand, it PREPARED him to first accept, and then DEMANDED that he crave it.
Ultimately, his arousal WAS his consent.
And it took all of 10 seconds.
The rest was just time and processing.
Another Beguiling Point...
Forgiving his wife's 'infidelity' was remarkable. His admission that it powerfully aroused him was right, good and courageous. But another intriguing matter needs exploration.
Her response to that huge penis brought him into a state of near constant arousal. The very extremity and constancy of his arousal became his tacit approval of her dalliances.
If her impalement on that huge penis made HIS arousal rage, on what ground can he deny her the same? He is helpless to resist the eroticism of that moment. If he takes extreme pleasure in seeing it, how can he deny HER right to the same extreme, erotic pleasure?
His arousal not only effectively quashed his capacity for effective resistance; it also took away any argument he might otherwise make against it!
So on one hand, his arousal devastated his ability to resist his cuckolding; on the other hand, it PREPARED him to first accept, and then DEMANDED that he crave it.
Ultimately, his arousal WAS his consent.
Intention and Design...
For this husband, the sheer beauty, power and sensuality of his wife and lover's indulgence was profoundly human.
'Riding his huge dick...He doesn’t say so, but what follows strongly implies that in those few seconds, he knew intuitively and for the first time, he was seeing sex as sex truly is supposed to be, sex as Nature intends sex to be.
'fucking the holy shit of him,
'sweating profusely...
'as if someone poured a glass of water down her back...
'the bed was soaked, her screaming 'fuck me!'
And if that is true, HOW can it be wrong to say so?
Some men are seduced and tormented by the pleasures of cuckoldry in months in advance. This man walked into the experience in an instant of time. Yet he was no passive observer. In months of constant arousal, uncontrollable fantasies, continual masturbation, and arousal heightened as never before, he participated fully in his own cuckolding.
If some men achieve this pinnacle of pleasure only through cuckoldry, it is worth asking why that is so.
The Changes That Came...
She was ready for change. Did she keep sexing men after her husband walked in on them? We're not told, but it seems so. Earlier, he said:
Transfer of Power...
Sharing his sexual power with this wife, the stud greatly empowered her over her husband. A one time request to watch became a weekly thing. And note: the HUSBAND who ASKED to watch, and SHE who DECIDED.
She loved what other men taught her, and what she learned, she practiced with her husband, including humiliation and chastity.
She now wielded the sexual power in their marriage.
Returning to Intention and Design...
But there is still that question: why is it that some men achieve their pinnacle of pleasure only through cuckoldry? And the implication is absolutely fascinating!
Note well -- at the same time SHE is gaining sexual experience, knowledge and power from well-endowed lovers, the SAME experience reduces him to chronic arousal, ceaseless masturbation and compulsive fantasies of that huge penis taking his wife!
The very thing that empowered her AT THE SAME TIME reduced him to helplessness! What readied her to dominate prepared him to submit. Again, it happened AT THE SAME TIME.
This is absolutely fascinating.
It is utterly beautiful.
It is extremely erotic.
Nature knows what it's doing.
Whatever one believes about evolutionary biology, these dynamics do work in many cases. And while funded research may not [yet] support it, such dynamics seem to exist with such regularity as to allow for this reasonable hypothesis:
Nature Intends This...
She was ready for change. Did she keep sexing men after her husband walked in on them? We're not told, but it seems so. Earlier, he said:
'I had to tell her that I wasn't upset with her... that I wanted her to continue fucking men.'Note: He’s not asking her to 'start' but to continue. Then there is this:
'Once I talked her into letting me watch one time.'Again, it isn’t ‘DO this one time,' but let him WATCH one time. Most likely, she kept sexing men even after he saw. She was empowered to continue with our without hubby's approval! And Nature saw to it that he soon caught up. It just took him some time.
Transfer of Power...
Sharing his sexual power with this wife, the stud greatly empowered her over her husband. A one time request to watch became a weekly thing. And note: the HUSBAND who ASKED to watch, and SHE who DECIDED.
'Once she started planning on her own, I fell in love with humiliation and chastity she rather took over the dominant role...'The strong likelihood is that she continued her personal, sexual development. She quickly widened her sexual experience and knowledge, and discovered new preferences that she would never otherwise explore.
She loved what other men taught her, and what she learned, she practiced with her husband, including humiliation and chastity.
She now wielded the sexual power in their marriage.
Returning to Intention and Design...
But there is still that question: why is it that some men achieve their pinnacle of pleasure only through cuckoldry? And the implication is absolutely fascinating!
Note well -- at the same time SHE is gaining sexual experience, knowledge and power from well-endowed lovers, the SAME experience reduces him to chronic arousal, ceaseless masturbation and compulsive fantasies of that huge penis taking his wife!
The very thing that empowered her AT THE SAME TIME reduced him to helplessness! What readied her to dominate prepared him to submit. Again, it happened AT THE SAME TIME.
This is absolutely fascinating.
It is utterly beautiful.
It is extremely erotic.
Nature knows what it's doing.
Whatever one believes about evolutionary biology, these dynamics do work in many cases. And while funded research may not [yet] support it, such dynamics seem to exist with such regularity as to allow for this reasonable hypothesis:
Nature Intends This...
This little blog is read by people around the world. Sometimes as many as 500 visit its pages in a month. Cuckold curiosity and desire crosses many cultures and societies. Many men desire and even CRAVE to be cuckolded, even as it terrifies them. Why?
They
desire cuckolding because millions of years of evolutionary biology
incline them to it. Sex is vital for the survival of the species. Husbands desire it because they're supposed to desire it as part of Nature's intention to ensure the propagation of the species.
Arousal prepares for sexual activity. Since cuckoldry so often arouses husbands suggests that the mechanism evolved to support reproductive function. But cuckold arousal in many instances induces husbands to step aside as another fulfills that function.
Arousal prepares for sexual activity. Since cuckoldry so often arouses husbands suggests that the mechanism evolved to support reproductive function. But cuckold arousal in many instances induces husbands to step aside as another fulfills that function.
The question this man asked [is cuckolding with co-workers and close friends too far] may be reasonable. But there seems little chance that he escaped her wiles. His wife:
1] Loved to dominate him.
2] Strongly desired to humiliate him.
3] Had years of experience dominating him.
4] Knows how much pleasure he takes from it.
Concluding Thoughts...
While many husbands plot and scheme for years to convince their wife to take another man, some wives find themselves in the opposite role. They may desire their lover and wish they could bring their husband onboard.
If they understand the dynamics, and if they cooperate, a wife and lover can groom and shape a husband to be cuckolded. As they two work together, a husband's power is limited and his options are few.
Women gain much IF they know how to bring that desire to the surface of their husbands' consciousness. When HE desires this, the result is a win-win-win.
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Do you envy what this wife was able to do? Have you ever wanted more than your husband gives? Have you ever wondered what you're missing? Do you wish that you had the sexual power to do what she did, or that your husband would agree to this arrangement?
Whatever your thoughts on cuckoldry, do you feel that this is what sex is supposed to be? Can you be satisfied with less and not resent it at all? Did this post arouse you enough to make you wet? How do you think your husband would react to this article if he saw it?
Have you ever 'tested the waters' with him in any way? If so, how did this go? Were you ever pleased by attention from another man? If your husband knew, how did he react
Has your wife ever cuckolded you? Do you wish she would? Did you ever share this with her? Would you show her this post? Do you wish you could share it with her? If your wife read this post, how do you think that she would react? If your wife had this experience, how would you react? Could you do 'better' than this man? Or are you in a situation now?
Do you envy what this wife was able to do? Have you ever wanted more than your husband gives? Have you ever wondered what you're missing? Do you wish that you had the sexual power to do what she did, or that your husband would agree to this arrangement?
Whatever your thoughts on cuckoldry, do you feel that this is what sex is supposed to be? Can you be satisfied with less and not resent it at all? Did this post arouse you enough to make you wet? How do you think your husband would react to this article if he saw it?
Have you ever 'tested the waters' with him in any way? If so, how did this go? Were you ever pleased by attention from another man? If your husband knew, how did he react
Has your wife ever cuckolded you? Do you wish she would? Did you ever share this with her? Would you show her this post? Do you wish you could share it with her? If your wife read this post, how do you think that she would react? If your wife had this experience, how would you react? Could you do 'better' than this man? Or are you in a situation now?
Comments and discussion are welcomed.
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