It Matters ...

It Matters...

In poetic form and with compelling expression, rougedmont's blog shares how and why the male anatomy matters.
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it matters more than you think it does

women are afraid to state their preference

because our vagina’s are designed for diversity

the average adult vagina is 3-4 inches long

when it is un-aroused, un-lubricated, un-inspired

3 to 4 inches long in our natural and flaccid state

we elongate to beautifully expand our pleated folds

to comfortably accommodate both girth and length

of the erect and aroused phallus looking to penetrate us

our depth can vary between women to take 8 to 12 inches

before our cervix would be bruised from his thrusting

we can shorten our depth depending on sexual position

we can make a tighter fit with strong pelvic floor muscles

even though childbirth will alter things forever to different

we are built to comfortably encase a well endowed man

when we are excited and aroused ourselves

the more excited we get, the bigger the man we can take

yet even a flaccid vagina can accept the barely felt intrusion

of a man who can’t even fill you when bored and uninterested

the ache of un-fulfillment throbs with your uterine contractions

as you orgasm and are still left wanting something deeper

something wider to allow your body to respond as it was meant to

Could you make and live with this decision?

letting your vagina hold onto the thick pulsing cock in a death grip

of pleasured milking sensations and suctioning wanted intrusions

instead of having the tactile sensation of internal pressure devoid

from your partners lack of endowment when you are aroused

it matters more than most women will admit

for fear of hurting feelings or making size a priority

especially if you know exactly what you are missing

when you decide to settle for a small cock sexual experience
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Sisters: Is rougedmont's last point a mistake you made? What would be your thoughts to your best girlfriend if she asked you about these things?

A Woman's Fantasy, In White, Cotton Briefs

White Cotton Briefs ...

Sparing no puritanical minds, Rougedmount's smoldering fantasy beautifies the object of her desire, and vindicates her desire for it.
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god… it’s so absolutely, perfectly, brilliantly deliciously divine, seeing a well endowed man in his cotton underwear. seeing the plain of his stomach, the slightly increasing fur as it disappears downwards into the band. the delineation, the curves, the swelling definition of his concealed endowment is almost more than i can take.

If honesty is a virtue, should not women be honest?

my mouth salivates after going dry. i instinctively swallow and lick my lips after biting them. it is virtually impossible to raise my eyes or look elsewhere as the perfectly packaged mound of his flesh is right there. almost touchable. my imagination is flying into every naughty thing i have ever seen or witnessed, as i envision myself taking him.

a band of white, a delicate veil that hides nothing and showcases everything while maintaining a modesty that is irrelevant considering all that it exposes to my eager eyes. i can see his resting shape and imagine him in the full bloom of arousal. i see the curved perfection of his softest and most vulnerable sack, tightly held front and center as if he was at the height of arousal.

i can imagine him elongating, swelling and taking shape beneath my heated gaze. tenting the material until it is threadbare and provides a shadowed low light of definition which highlights his arching pillar which is striated with a myriad of veins and ropy topography. the indentation of a plumed head almost makes me breathless, as it’s heart shape inspires my pulse to race.

with everything i have seen, in truth, i have actually seen nothing and his modesty is intact, his virtue upheld by the meagerest of thread counts. as much as his appearance in his briefs has impacted me, he is in fact covered. it is only in my mind that he is also covered by my mouth, my hands and my body as i force his physical response into turgidity and a resulting tumescence as his arousal seeps through the cotton in a perfect damp spot of desire.
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The pretense of an untainted mind, or courage to speak honestly -- which is virtuous?

Women who embrace their desires and affirm the beauty of them are welcome to offer their thoughts for a post. Be vindicated.

Leveling with your Wife about your Cuckold Desire

How does one tell their spouse that they want her or him to take great pleasure from another partner? What if she or he doesn't react well to the suggestion? What will change? Or am I truly as ready for this as I think?

Even those who have put their fears behind them and are inflamed with desire to share their desire with their spouse will agonize over this question for years or even decades. The one with cuckold desire may see this as a thing of great beauty and tremendous power. If only there was some way to broach this!

Reposted from Dr. Dawn Michael's blog, The Happy Spouse, this article brings to the fore the compelling yet paralyzing desire to inform one's spouse of the desire to be cuckolded. It has been lightly edited without permission to improve readability.
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How to tell my wife that I want to be in a Cuckold marriage?

As a clinical sexologist and intimacy counselor, men ask for my advice on what to do about their fetishes. About 80% of the men are married. Most men with this fantasy had their fetish before marrying their wife thinking that it would go away after marrying. But it does not. 

One type of fetish that has intrigued me over the years is a man that wants his wife to cuckold him.

He has recurring thoughts and fantasies of his wife having sex with other men and getting pleasure from them. The husband is usually the one who wants to get his wife involved but he does not know how to go about telling her.

Once in a while I counsel a couple who wants to explore cuckolding together, but typically it is the man who initiates this fetish. When a wife has sex with a man other than her husband, she makes her husband a 'cuckold.' But sometimes, it is the husband who wants his wife to have sex with the other man, either in front of him or else hears about it after.

The husband derives much satisfaction from watching his wife take pleasure from another man. Typically, that other man has a larger than average penis.

Another aspect about cuckolding, is the husband needing to be shamed by his wife. One way is for her to compare his penis size with her lover, and to tell her husband that his penis is just to small to please her.

Other forms of shaming can go along with the cuckolding as well depending on the scope of the cuckolding session. Some husbands like to be tied to a chair and forced to watch, and not allowed to touch themselves while the scenario is being played out in front of them. Sometimes a wife will place a cock cage or chastity belt on the husband so that he is not able to masturbate. A wife may also spank her husband as a form of deeper humiliation and domination...

The man who has this fetish, dreams about his wife sharing it with him. But for the most part, men who approach their wives with this don't get a positive response. It either results into a fight, hard feeling or a trial period leading to disaster. Some women may be more open to it than others, but the majority will not.

Husbands have asked me as a professional about how to approach their wives with their fantasy of cuckolding, and the answer is always to have a session beforehand with me to understand how to approach his wife and her possible respond.

I will advise my male clients who are into the cuckolding fantasy is that they need to tell their wives slowly and see what her reaction is. Some women are more open to the idea of cuckolding than others but unless it is approached in the right manner often time it does not go well. The history of men telling me their stories before seeing me they did not approach their wives correctly and it closed the door for them altogether.

The fact is that once a man is interested in this form of a fetish it is hard to stop him from thinking about it and wanting to act on it!
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The above article by Dr. Dawn Michael has several reader responses. Among them, MB wrote:

'I have had this fantasy for many years, but I really doubt my wife would be interested in any manner. The thought of her being intimate and fucked by a "real man" is a real turn - on for me. I wish she was aware of my true feelings.'

That is precisely the point of Dr. Michael's article.

Hot for Ryan...

An internet forum tells of a husband-to-be who believes that he is not able to satisfy his fiancé. He explains that his fiancé regularly enjoys sex with another man. 

This other man's penis is much larger than his own. He is a better lover and he gives her much better sex.

This husband-to-be is very excited sexually that his fiancé wears his engagement ring, while another man regularly wears her out and leaves her sated with pleasure that he could never give her. He wants this arrangement to continue even after their marriage. And he wants to include this other man in their marriage ceremony.

A number of posters responded positively to this. So apparently, it struck a nerve. Among those were several posters reporting as women. Some of those responses will be the basis of the next several posts. Grammar has been adjusted for readability, but care has been taken to preserve the meaning of the text as it was posted.

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'Somehow, I wish you could talk to my husband and convince him to let me have Ryan. Ryan works for him, and we are hot for each other. We want each other so bad! He is several years younger than me. He is even younger than my husband's son by his third marriage. When we’re together, we flirt. We have played ‘kissy-face’ and ‘rub-rub’ when nobody at the office was there to see us. I wish my husband thought like you do! Then Ryan and I could really go at it seriously!'

'I have even thought about eventually having Ryan's baby. I've thought about how hot it would be to fling with him for a while, then have a real affair, and then have him make me pregnant. But I don't know if I could start that. I think my husband would see how hot Ryan gets me whenever we’re together. I'm just afraid that if I let it start, I wouldn’t be able to control myself with Ryan. I’d end up mounting him every time we were together.'

'Still, my husband knows that I play with other men; but he doesn't know when or with whom. And I don't tell him because he doesn't want to know. He wants it private to cause him no embarrassment in the business world, or at church, or among friends.'

'So far I've been very good at that. If I did something and my husband knew, I might be in trouble. But reading these posts and seeing how lucky your girl is – that makes me think seriously about Ryan and how delicious he is [and a few others also]. If Ryan really made a serious move on me, I doubt I could resist, especially since I think Ryan has (oh my!) ................a gigantic cock, like her boyfriend. LUCKY!!!!!!!! So what you’re doing makes me want to be like your girl!'
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Endowments

Intelligent and gifted with a singular ability to perceive and articulate what others feel but may not always express with words, rougedmount's blog contains many outstanding posts. One of these is reproduced here.
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endowments matter

universities get them, businesses get them, people who are worthy of the accolades get them.

they are given in increments where allocation of larger ones are envied and respected

everyone is generally satisfied with what they were given, though wish they were given just a little more

money, success, anything quantifiable or measurable, men seem to compare and rank themselves

cock size is no different

the have’s and have not’s look at each other knowingly and make assumptions based on the initial analysis

regardless of merit or functionality, the larger the endowment of a man, the more impressive it is

not just to him and how he caries himself, but in how other’s perceive him as well
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