Sexually Compatible

Earlier, I mentioned the role of language and especially questions in the lifestyle of the awakening cuckoldrix. As that earlier post implies, reflection on observation and experience prepare us for new and different responses to ideas and situations.

No one understands a woman's mind like a woman, and among women, few are as honest or as articulate as Rougedmount. The clarity and eroticism of her writing indeed offends some sisters. But if they are honest, few even among them will remain unmoved by her words. Her emotional intelligence and sensual lucidity create offerings that resonate too deeply for women to mask. This is what we all are. And writing as she does, Rougedmount demands honesty of us. And reflection on such honesty DOES change us.

A final note. Rougedmount is not unmoved by virile, men who are not Caucasian. She acknowledged this. Knowing that consummate lovers are found among all races, what Rougedmount writes here relates to this particular fantasy.
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the perfect shaft of alabaster white and the ephemeral sheerness of thin velvet skin

smooth as silk without line or vein to mar it’s perfect arch towards his mid section

too thick to encircle with fingers on one hand the symmetry unbroken until his crown

flaring with defined ridge and supple slopes his mushroom head barely a shade darker

how can you see a perfect cock and then not expect to use it for the purpose of self pleasure


to take him in both hands as you drool spittle from darling tongue and a parted full mouth

slowly stroking and manipulating his engorged flesh to simulate the thrust of sexual union

teasing him with the tickle of long hair over skin and heavy breasts brushing up his thighs

sucking him to arouse myself until i sit up and announce to him i am going to ride his cock

and i crawl over his body press my thighs on either side of his hip and come forward


he’s too big to enter without adjustment to accommodate his steady and simple entry

breasts in his face he reaches forward to suckle the puckered and distended nipples

pulling hard with greedy suction with a grasping hand massaging fullness of flesh

he seats himself deep inside so my engorged wet labia is spread against his pubic bone


bringing sighs from both of us with the perfect fit of a thick cock inside a tight sheath


i rise to start the mindless fall and he takes the space back with consistent thrusting


steady and hard he pushes into the heat of my body and against a sensitive womb

he tops from underneath to use his shaft to stroke a clitoris and his head to pound me

instant arching arousal my body responds to his call for wild abandon as I start to burn

a low rumble of orgasm which builds like a cresting and crushing wave as i milk him

sending him spasming in throbbing release as the frothy foam is churned between us

he rides through the storm i started before him and stays hard as my pleasure outlasts

watching my reaction to his shifting hips and the position of his cock as it strokes me

sensitive, i shiver and gasp with  mewl’s of receding desire as he stirs heavily inside

breathing heavily i lift an arm to brush my hair back from my face which lifts by breasts

and brings his hands from my hips up the curve of my waist to cup their spilling weight

before sliding forward to gently pinch the areolas and pull forward to roll the nipples

sending a sparking cascade of shivers through my body as i clenched involuntarily

around his softening member, making him thrust forward and into the sensation

i opened closed eyes and returned the shy smile while his hands found the back of my head


pulling me forward to kiss my lips as he slipped from my body so I could lay beside him

reclined, reposed, relaxed in post coital satisfaction and fulfillment that good sex inspires

while many things may be lacking as far as communication or compatibility between us

this is the single area i am completely satisfied with as his thickly beautiful cock works well


i can handle a powerfully built, very well hung man with a furry chest, who doesn’t talk

his big hands and rough exterior, unsure of how to be gentle when passion flares hard

because when he forgets himself and takes me because he is seeking his own pleasure

that’s exactly how he brings me to mine with the contained violence of a strong man
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Leveling with your Wife about your Cuckold Desire

How does one tell their spouse that they want her or him to take great pleasure from another partner? What if she or he doesn't react well to the suggestion? What will change? Or am I truly as ready for this as I think?

Even those who have put their fears behind them and are inflamed with desire to share their desire with their spouse will agonize over this question for years or even decades. The one with cuckold desire may see this as a thing of great beauty and tremendous power. If only there was some way to broach this!

Reposted from Dr. Dawn Michael's blog, The Happy Spouse, this article brings to the fore the compelling yet paralyzing desire to inform one's spouse of the desire to be cuckolded. It has been lightly edited without permission to improve readability.
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How to tell my wife that I want to be in a Cuckold marriage?

As a clinical sexologist and intimacy counselor, men ask for my advice on what to do about their fetishes. About 80% of the men are married. Most men with this fantasy had their fetish before marrying their wife thinking that it would go away after marrying. But it does not. 

One type of fetish that has intrigued me over the years is a man that wants his wife to cuckold him.

He has recurring thoughts and fantasies of his wife having sex with other men and getting pleasure from them. The husband is usually the one who wants to get his wife involved but he does not know how to go about telling her.

Once in a while I counsel a couple who wants to explore cuckolding together, but typically it is the man who initiates this fetish. When a wife has sex with a man other than her husband, she makes her husband a 'cuckold.' But sometimes, it is the husband who wants his wife to have sex with the other man, either in front of him or else hears about it after.

The husband derives much satisfaction from watching his wife take pleasure from another man. Typically, that other man has a larger than average penis.

Another aspect about cuckolding, is the husband needing to be shamed by his wife. One way is for her to compare his penis size with her lover, and to tell her husband that his penis is just to small to please her.

Other forms of shaming can go along with the cuckolding as well depending on the scope of the cuckolding session. Some husbands like to be tied to a chair and forced to watch, and not allowed to touch themselves while the scenario is being played out in front of them. Sometimes a wife will place a cock cage or chastity belt on the husband so that he is not able to masturbate. A wife may also spank her husband as a form of deeper humiliation and domination...

The man who has this fetish, dreams about his wife sharing it with him. But for the most part, men who approach their wives with this don't get a positive response. It either results into a fight, hard feeling or a trial period leading to disaster. Some women may be more open to it than others, but the majority will not.

Husbands have asked me as a professional about how to approach their wives with their fantasy of cuckolding, and the answer is always to have a session beforehand with me to understand how to approach his wife and her possible respond.

I will advise my male clients who are into the cuckolding fantasy is that they need to tell their wives slowly and see what her reaction is. Some women are more open to the idea of cuckolding than others but unless it is approached in the right manner often time it does not go well. The history of men telling me their stories before seeing me they did not approach their wives correctly and it closed the door for them altogether.

The fact is that once a man is interested in this form of a fetish it is hard to stop him from thinking about it and wanting to act on it!
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The above article by Dr. Dawn Michael has several reader responses. Among them, MB wrote:

'I have had this fantasy for many years, but I really doubt my wife would be interested in any manner. The thought of her being intimate and fucked by a "real man" is a real turn - on for me. I wish she was aware of my true feelings.'

That is precisely the point of Dr. Michael's article.