A Woman's Fantasy, In White, Cotton Briefs

White Cotton Briefs ...

Sparing no puritanical minds, Rougedmount's smoldering fantasy beautifies the object of her desire, and vindicates her desire for it.
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god… it’s so absolutely, perfectly, brilliantly deliciously divine, seeing a well endowed man in his cotton underwear. seeing the plain of his stomach, the slightly increasing fur as it disappears downwards into the band. the delineation, the curves, the swelling definition of his concealed endowment is almost more than i can take.

If honesty is a virtue, should not women be honest?

my mouth salivates after going dry. i instinctively swallow and lick my lips after biting them. it is virtually impossible to raise my eyes or look elsewhere as the perfectly packaged mound of his flesh is right there. almost touchable. my imagination is flying into every naughty thing i have ever seen or witnessed, as i envision myself taking him.

a band of white, a delicate veil that hides nothing and showcases everything while maintaining a modesty that is irrelevant considering all that it exposes to my eager eyes. i can see his resting shape and imagine him in the full bloom of arousal. i see the curved perfection of his softest and most vulnerable sack, tightly held front and center as if he was at the height of arousal.

i can imagine him elongating, swelling and taking shape beneath my heated gaze. tenting the material until it is threadbare and provides a shadowed low light of definition which highlights his arching pillar which is striated with a myriad of veins and ropy topography. the indentation of a plumed head almost makes me breathless, as it’s heart shape inspires my pulse to race.

with everything i have seen, in truth, i have actually seen nothing and his modesty is intact, his virtue upheld by the meagerest of thread counts. as much as his appearance in his briefs has impacted me, he is in fact covered. it is only in my mind that he is also covered by my mouth, my hands and my body as i force his physical response into turgidity and a resulting tumescence as his arousal seeps through the cotton in a perfect damp spot of desire.
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The pretense of an untainted mind, or courage to speak honestly -- which is virtuous?

Women who embrace their desires and affirm the beauty of them are welcome to offer their thoughts for a post. Be vindicated.

Profile of a Cuckoldress

Written from a woman's perspective, this article from the now inactive 'This Wife's Turn' blog features such candor as challenges her sisters to to find such honesty regarding their thoughts and desires.

With a strong finish, this article, 'The Profile of a Cuckoldress' admonishes us to be true to ourselves as a means of maturing and actualizing our selves.

BRAVO!
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So maybe you are at least just the teansy bit interested in this lifestyle, but just can’t shake the idea that a good and proper woman, or wife, or mother should not act on that curiosity, or even consider it.

So I want to tell you about the women who do consider the thoughts, the daydreams, and the fantasies.  The women who embrace the freedom and act on those thoughts.

I’ll start with me.

I’m a fairly curvy woman, I was built to pleasure a man. I love to know that he is hot with desire for me and my curvy parts.  I love to see and feel the physical response of  a certain body part only he has and knowing that I was able to do that to him.  Something magical happens inside me when I know that I am the object of a man’s desires.  Even if that desire is never physically realized, it is a HUGE aphrodisiac.

I love to be touched and rubbed by my partner, to feel his strong, rough, and yet soft hands on my smooth skin.  My breasts are sensitive, one of my erogenous zones. It tingles when my nipples get hard, the tingling drives me wild, makes me warm, and lustful. Sometimes in the throws of passion, if they aren’t getting enough attention, I’ll rub and stimulate them myself. I’ve been called a touchy-feely type of girl many times.
I love sex, all parts of sex; the flirting, build-up, and anticipation, the kissing, teasing, and foreplay, the penetration, being filled up, and the building of the orgasm.

How does that sound?  Does that sound too far off a ‘normal’ woman?  Does that sound so different than you?

But wait, that’s not all!!!!!

As much as I would like to say that I am a 24 hour, 7 day a week sex goddess who spends 100% of my time doing and thinking about sexual things, life does interrupt and it must be lived.  I am a regular woman, a wife, a mother, and part of a regular family.

We could be any family that you meet.  We could be your next door neighbors, the family seated next to you at church, or another family on your child’s soccer team.  I could be that new mommy at the playgroup, I could be your best customer at your last Pampered Chef party, or maybe I started the scrapbook club you so look forward to each month.  We have our jobs, friends, and responsibilities that can’t be neglected just because we want to enjoy our extra sexual fun.

Enough about me, so now what about you?  Think you might fit the profile of a Cuckoldress?

Angela Lewis, PhD, in her book “My Other Self” says yes you do!  Well, okay, maybe not you specifically, but she does say that any ‘normal’ woman could be a cuckoldress.  Her research and observations has led to some conclusions that may surprise many people.
Her full survey results can be seen from the link below, and I’ll list the high points below:

Survey Results
According to the survey, the definition of a ‘Typical” Cuckoldress:

• Well-educated
• White
• In her thirties
• In her first marriage and has been in it for at least 11 years
• Dominant in her relationship, but submissive with her lovers.
• No preference in race, but does consider penis size when considering lovers
• Still has sex with her husband.
• Separates love from sexual desire.
• Discrete about her extra-sexual fun

Some of the reasons women gave for choosing this lifestyle:

• Husband cannot sexually satisfy me
• I have a high sex drive
• I had a crush that I wanted to explore
• My husband worships and adores me and has given me the gift of having all the sex and pleasure that I deserve
• My husband is an alpha male in his life, but he willingly submits to me sexually and I love to see him lose control
•  Discovered husband is aroused by this fantasy and I enjoy the power and control

I was surprised by the lack of rules for some couples.  Here are the activities where most said they have no rules and it depends on the situation:

• Husband’s allowed participation
• Condom use – really surprising and scary to me!!!

Finally, most have agreed that cuckolding has strengthened their relationships.

I’m not trying to convince you to live this lifestyle.  It is not for everyone and should not be entered into lightly.  I want you to know that you are not some hussy or something sleazy because these thoughts are in your imagination or because you want to do this.  Don’t let this society or culture tell you want a proper wife should do. 

But if it is fear that is keeping you from doing this, then find ways to manage it.  A little fear is a good thing.  It helps us to pay attention and to consider all the costs and everything that could be changed.  But too much fear is a bad thing.  If it keeps you from being who you want to be, then talk about it with your partner.  Find baby steps that can help you overcome and manage those fears.

You have your own dreams and desires.

You shouldn’t live in the shadow of your own desires forever. You have to take that chance and make your life reflect who you really are.
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Noises from the Apartment Next Door

This beautifully woven and naturally told story was submitted by email to the Modern Directions website, where it was edited and published for the world. Enjoy, but also offer your own comments!
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"Each time we heard them it was a painful remainder for me, and especially my wife, that our bedroom life was not what it used to be."

My wife and I had been listening to the guy next door banging his girlfriends for several months.

I don't want to even describe the noises they made, except they were loud, especially when they came.

There was no sleeping until it was over, which was generally very late.

One night after it had started up, I asked my wife if she ever wished if she was getting banged like that.

Without directly answering, she said that he must be good, the girls keep coming back.

As we listened to the girl get to a noisy climax I said to my wife that maybe she should ask him how he does it, and then she teasingly added, "Or get him to demonstrate."
" I said, 'Admit it, you would like to know what it would be like with him ' "
   
Later that night we heard it start up again. She took hold of my penis and asked if I would be jealous if I knew that was her over there.

I said, "Maybe a little, but you wouldn't have to listen to that every night and be jealous of those girls."

She said, "But then you would be jealous."

I tried to think of my wife over there getting banged and making the noises we were hearing. I started to get an erection.  She felt it. "What are you thinking about?"

"What it would be like knowing it was you over there and not one of those girls."

"Would that turn you on?"

She could feel my answer in her hand.

She said, "We used to do it most every night, if you'll remember."

I didn't need to be reminded.

For the next week or so I thought about it.

I knew when he got home from work, so made it a point to meet him outside his door.

Strangely, although we lived next to each other, we had never talked.

I discovered pretty quick that the guy was a buff, full-of-himself type -- the kind of guy that probably spent hours every week in a gym.

After a bit of chit-chat I said, "The walls are very thin; my wife is jealous of your lovemaking."

"Sorry, you can hear a clock ticking through these walls. The idiot architect put the bedrooms right next to each other."

 As we continued talking he said he needed the sex but after a month or so the girls wanted to get serious.

I said, "And I guess you don't."

"Hell no, I've been down that road and I'm still paying for it; every fucking month I pay for it."

He motioned to his waist and asked if my wife was the one with the very long brunette hair.

I decided that this guy was no threat to our relationship. I boldly said, "Tell her you love her hair and she's yours for the night, or at least a couple hours."

It was a lame comment to offer my wife to him for sex, but right then it was the best I could do. Plus, openly giving another man permission to fuck my wife was something I couldn't take back.

He waited for me to turn it into a joke or add some qualifications. I didn't. "You serious?"

"Just to borrow, and you can make all the noise you want."

He considered it. "If you are serious, have her come over about 7:00 tonight and we'll get to know each other."

We went into our respective apartments and when my wife got home I said, "I have a date for you with the guy next door."

She said, "What do you mean, a date?"

"So he can get to know each other. He's expecting you in an hour."

"For what?"

"Talking, and whatever else. And you can make all the noise you want."
" She narrowed her eyes, 'You really would like to listen wouldn't you?' "
   
I said, "We've been listening long enough; maybe it's time for you to be part of the action."

 "And you want me, your wife, to be part of his action?"

"And your action too. Admit it, you've been wondering what it would be like."

"What are you thinking about here -- friends-with-benefits?"

"Exactly."

"And you would rather hear me moaning over there than one of those girls?"

"And I think you would like to be the one doing the moaning."

After supper I had her change into a sexy dress with no bra.  I was getting turned on thinking of her going over there like that...sending a clear, "I'm available," message.

What would happen?  I had no idea.

Lest she chicken out, at 7:00 I walked her to his door, pushed the door bell and walked away.

I listened at the wall for almost an hour. I heard them talking, but they were in the living room away from the wall and I couldn't make out what they were saying.

Finally. their voices shifted to what I had learned was the bedroom and I heard giggling from my wife and I thought, I guess the talking part is over.

I heard the bed squeak several times over the next 15 minutes like they were shifting positions and apparently into making out.

Before long the familiar noises started, but this time the woman was my wife.

It went on for some time, just as it usually does with his dates.

I wanted her to enjoy it -- I wanted both of them to enjoy it.

Then I started hearing her encouraging him and it got louder until I heard the unmistakable "ahhh" from him that signaled his climax.

It was only then that I fully realized that another man -- and I didn't even remember his name -- had shot his load into my wife.

I almost shot my load hearing it.

As soon as she got back, she said, "I had to leave; he has someone coming over."

I said, "Does he have anything left for her?"

"I'm sure he does. So, I guess you could you hear it."

"Yes, but did you make it?"

"No, he said next time I could stay longer and he would see that I came -- at least once. The guy is pretty confident in his abilities."

"I figured that when I talked to him. So did you like it?"

" ' He's strong and he's big, I can see why....'  She stopped. 'Sorry. I guess I shouldn't be saying stuff like that to you.' "

There was a long pause.  He wants me to come over tomorrow night....and stay longer. 

There was an awkward moment and she lamely added that she hoped they hadn't made too much noise.

I said that I would like to hear both of them make a lot of noise.  "Tell him when he wants to borrow you to just knock on the door"

"Jez, just knock on the door!? What kind of a ...."

I interrupted, "Would your rather hear some other girl over there getting the action?"

"Okay, assuming we get this friends-with-benefits thing going, what if we still hear other girls over there."

"If you keep him satisfied he wouldn't need to look elsewhere.".

"Satisfied?  That guy does some girl every night and twice on Sunday."

"Like you said, we used to do every night -- unless you are no longer up for that much action."

She said, "Just because we don't do it that often any more doesn't mean I'm not capable of it."

"Let's see."

Later that night her cell phone rang. She started with, "Oh, hi," and ended with, "Give me a couple minutes." She looked at me.  "I'll be back in a while."

About 40 minutes later the room started to shake as his bed rocked. I heard her loudly encouraging him. (Was she trying to make me jealous?)

Then I heard the noises she makes when she's building to a climax, except much louder. I wasn't sure if this was real. Was she trying to compete with the other women, or she was trying to make me jealous?

Not too long after that I ran into him outside.  After a few awkward moments he said, "Your wife says I just have to call and she will come over."

I nodded. "What's your secret with all the women?"

He shrugged, "No secret. I'm big and I can go a long time before I come, which means they come before I do. So how often can I....?"

I said, "Whenever, and you don't have to wine and dine her like other girls. She's already married and on the pill, so you don't have to worry about any of that."

"And this is really okay with you?"

"Keep her satisfied -- more than satisfied, if you are up to it."

He considered if. "Can she come over tonight about 10?"

"I'll ask her."

At 10:00 she left for his place.

At 10:45 the room was shaking and I heard the sounds of my wife heading toward a climax.

Then I heard her loudly climax, and then him.

And then so did I.

At 11:35 I heard the shower running.

At 11:50 she was in bed beside me. She said, "I can see why those women keep coming back."

By midnight she was asleep.

Maybe now my wife won't have to listen to some other girl getting off every night.

And I won't have to hear her subtle complaints about our sex life.

Seems like a good deal all the way around.
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This wonderful, sensitive story is a superb blend of joy, giving, sensibility and eroticism. It is true that most couples require more time before coming to this point. But this does not diminish from the goodness, desirability or rightfulness of their experience in the least.

If you are a woman, how would you react to hearing these these cries of pleasure, night after night? If you are a man, would you find courage to make the bold step this man did?

Leveling with your Wife about your Cuckold Desire

How does one tell their spouse that they want her or him to take great pleasure from another partner? What if she or he doesn't react well to the suggestion? What will change? Or am I truly as ready for this as I think?

Even those who have put their fears behind them and are inflamed with desire to share their desire with their spouse will agonize over this question for years or even decades. The one with cuckold desire may see this as a thing of great beauty and tremendous power. If only there was some way to broach this!

Reposted from Dr. Dawn Michael's blog, The Happy Spouse, this article brings to the fore the compelling yet paralyzing desire to inform one's spouse of the desire to be cuckolded. It has been lightly edited without permission to improve readability.
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How to tell my wife that I want to be in a Cuckold marriage?

As a clinical sexologist and intimacy counselor, men ask for my advice on what to do about their fetishes. About 80% of the men are married. Most men with this fantasy had their fetish before marrying their wife thinking that it would go away after marrying. But it does not. 

One type of fetish that has intrigued me over the years is a man that wants his wife to cuckold him.

He has recurring thoughts and fantasies of his wife having sex with other men and getting pleasure from them. The husband is usually the one who wants to get his wife involved but he does not know how to go about telling her.

Once in a while I counsel a couple who wants to explore cuckolding together, but typically it is the man who initiates this fetish. When a wife has sex with a man other than her husband, she makes her husband a 'cuckold.' But sometimes, it is the husband who wants his wife to have sex with the other man, either in front of him or else hears about it after.

The husband derives much satisfaction from watching his wife take pleasure from another man. Typically, that other man has a larger than average penis.

Another aspect about cuckolding, is the husband needing to be shamed by his wife. One way is for her to compare his penis size with her lover, and to tell her husband that his penis is just to small to please her.

Other forms of shaming can go along with the cuckolding as well depending on the scope of the cuckolding session. Some husbands like to be tied to a chair and forced to watch, and not allowed to touch themselves while the scenario is being played out in front of them. Sometimes a wife will place a cock cage or chastity belt on the husband so that he is not able to masturbate. A wife may also spank her husband as a form of deeper humiliation and domination...

The man who has this fetish, dreams about his wife sharing it with him. But for the most part, men who approach their wives with this don't get a positive response. It either results into a fight, hard feeling or a trial period leading to disaster. Some women may be more open to it than others, but the majority will not.

Husbands have asked me as a professional about how to approach their wives with their fantasy of cuckolding, and the answer is always to have a session beforehand with me to understand how to approach his wife and her possible respond.

I will advise my male clients who are into the cuckolding fantasy is that they need to tell their wives slowly and see what her reaction is. Some women are more open to the idea of cuckolding than others but unless it is approached in the right manner often time it does not go well. The history of men telling me their stories before seeing me they did not approach their wives correctly and it closed the door for them altogether.

The fact is that once a man is interested in this form of a fetish it is hard to stop him from thinking about it and wanting to act on it!
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The above article by Dr. Dawn Michael has several reader responses. Among them, MB wrote:

'I have had this fantasy for many years, but I really doubt my wife would be interested in any manner. The thought of her being intimate and fucked by a "real man" is a real turn - on for me. I wish she was aware of my true feelings.'

That is precisely the point of Dr. Michael's article.

Bigger WAS Better ...

This submission is from a woman whose husband's long desire for his wife to cuckold him finally comes to fruition. He was right in saying that the experience would be very good. That became the issue.

From 'B:'

'I did it! I had sex with another man and his wife, while my husband watched. I did it and it was great.'

'I was nervous, especially because the other guy's wife was there and she was joining in. But the two of them made a GREAT team! His creativity, passion, technique, staying power, endowment, thrill of the experience itself-all made it very, very good.'

'He was big and hard and oh my - so confident! He did not have any hesitation or worry about what to do.

He just took me in his arms like we had made love many times before and started on me like I was the only woman on earth. He started slowly and gave me time to accomodate his large cock. Then he got serious. He  also used his mouth both hands on me while also using his cock on me. She was also using her hands and her mouth on me at the same time. It was just sensory overload and I lost control of my body.'

'The guy was really, really good (WOW! SWEET BABY!) in bed! In no time flat, he had me bucking and squealing like my hubby never has and [sadly] probably never will. That was the problem. I got too expressive compared to what I normally do with my hubby. But I couldn't help it! Anyway, this made my hubby mad and later he told me we would never do it again.'

'I was really reluctant to do this in the first place. But he just had this fantasy about how great it would be to see me brought off by another guy. I resisted hard. But he begged me and pleaded with me to do this for such a long time! Finally, I gave in and did it for him, because I wanted him to be happy.'

'Originally, the agreement was that after he watched me getting it, he would do both us women. Then when he actually saw it happening he got jealous because he had never seen me act like that or get so noisy with him. Maybe if he had gone first, it would have been different. I wish it was. Straight sex with him is pretty boring now. And even though I try to hide it, I think he knows this.'

'So even though her man took me, and even though she is much more beautiful than I am (she is gorgeous), my hubby refused to take her. He was intimidated -- by that, I mean more than a little intimidated -- by the other guy's performance, the size of his equipment, and how he took complete control of me. I think he lost his confidence about doing the other guy's woman and his ability to satisfy her. And from my experience, I'd have to say that he would probably be right.'

'So even though her man took me, and even though she is much more beautiful than I am, my hubby refused to take her. He had me get dressed and we left. The other couple was not happy since she did not get hers so to speak. But this hurts me also because I really miss it and now I just ache for it.'
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This wife admits sadly that likely, she will never experience anything near the pleasure and satisfaction she is capable of experiencing. She hurts and aches for more. How is it right that she should hurt, ache and suffer because of this? Has she not the right to all she is capable of experiencing? Would you encourage him to recognize this?

If you are a woman or a wife, would you understand her resentment or disappointment at this outcome? If you are a man, would you be intimidated or aroused by this experience?

Do you care for your wife enough to facilitate her deeply-felt need? Wouldn't a better response be for him to approach the couple with an apology, to admit that this stud is the better man, and to put this relationship right? How would you council this husband?

If this experience resonated with you in any way, post a reply!
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