Sexually Compatible

Earlier, I mentioned the role of language and especially questions in the lifestyle of the awakening cuckoldrix. As that earlier post implies, reflection on observation and experience prepare us for new and different responses to ideas and situations.

No one understands a woman's mind like a woman, and among women, few are as honest or as articulate as Rougedmount. The clarity and eroticism of her writing indeed offends some sisters. But if they are honest, few even among them will remain unmoved by her words. Her emotional intelligence and sensual lucidity create offerings that resonate too deeply for women to mask. This is what we all are. And writing as she does, Rougedmount demands honesty of us. And reflection on such honesty DOES change us.

A final note. Rougedmount is not unmoved by virile, men who are not Caucasian. She acknowledged this. Knowing that consummate lovers are found among all races, what Rougedmount writes here relates to this particular fantasy.
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the perfect shaft of alabaster white and the ephemeral sheerness of thin velvet skin

smooth as silk without line or vein to mar it’s perfect arch towards his mid section

too thick to encircle with fingers on one hand the symmetry unbroken until his crown

flaring with defined ridge and supple slopes his mushroom head barely a shade darker

how can you see a perfect cock and then not expect to use it for the purpose of self pleasure


to take him in both hands as you drool spittle from darling tongue and a parted full mouth

slowly stroking and manipulating his engorged flesh to simulate the thrust of sexual union

teasing him with the tickle of long hair over skin and heavy breasts brushing up his thighs

sucking him to arouse myself until i sit up and announce to him i am going to ride his cock

and i crawl over his body press my thighs on either side of his hip and come forward


he’s too big to enter without adjustment to accommodate his steady and simple entry

breasts in his face he reaches forward to suckle the puckered and distended nipples

pulling hard with greedy suction with a grasping hand massaging fullness of flesh

he seats himself deep inside so my engorged wet labia is spread against his pubic bone


bringing sighs from both of us with the perfect fit of a thick cock inside a tight sheath


i rise to start the mindless fall and he takes the space back with consistent thrusting


steady and hard he pushes into the heat of my body and against a sensitive womb

he tops from underneath to use his shaft to stroke a clitoris and his head to pound me

instant arching arousal my body responds to his call for wild abandon as I start to burn

a low rumble of orgasm which builds like a cresting and crushing wave as i milk him

sending him spasming in throbbing release as the frothy foam is churned between us

he rides through the storm i started before him and stays hard as my pleasure outlasts

watching my reaction to his shifting hips and the position of his cock as it strokes me

sensitive, i shiver and gasp with  mewl’s of receding desire as he stirs heavily inside

breathing heavily i lift an arm to brush my hair back from my face which lifts by breasts

and brings his hands from my hips up the curve of my waist to cup their spilling weight

before sliding forward to gently pinch the areolas and pull forward to roll the nipples

sending a sparking cascade of shivers through my body as i clenched involuntarily

around his softening member, making him thrust forward and into the sensation

i opened closed eyes and returned the shy smile while his hands found the back of my head


pulling me forward to kiss my lips as he slipped from my body so I could lay beside him

reclined, reposed, relaxed in post coital satisfaction and fulfillment that good sex inspires

while many things may be lacking as far as communication or compatibility between us

this is the single area i am completely satisfied with as his thickly beautiful cock works well


i can handle a powerfully built, very well hung man with a furry chest, who doesn’t talk

his big hands and rough exterior, unsure of how to be gentle when passion flares hard

because when he forgets himself and takes me because he is seeking his own pleasure

that’s exactly how he brings me to mine with the contained violence of a strong man
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If you find yourself moved by this, leave a note saying so.

Stud Seduces Wife As Her Husband Watches Helplessly

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Internet Porn Is Fascinating ... Read On!

Do we look? Of course we do! When she meets a man, the first thing a woman notices are his looks. And it is said that as many as one woman in six is addicted to some form of porn. That's right. One in six.

Lest it be protested that such statistical inventions arise from aging hippies nostalgic for Woodstock era 'free love,' know that these figures were prepared from a survey published by Today's Christian Women. If anything, these are conservative numbers. Of course that reports on women who struggle with pornography. But what of more casual users?

In 2007, the Sydney Morning Herald reported that Australians were visiting pornographic websites including sexually explicit dating websites in record numbers. Of those, one in three were women.

Imagine that this one woman is your wife ...

When you wake up, she is gone!

Night after night after night, she is up late...

Reading and watching.

And what she reads and sees makes her think and think and think and think.

It arouses her. She becomes wet...sometimes very wet. It is pleasant, pleasant enough to make her want more. That pleasure convinces her of Nature's intention for her. Convinced of that, she learns to surrender to her thoughts. She begins uncontrollable fantasizing every day. 

Two nights ago, you had a huge fight over it. She cried and swore she’d quit. Now you awake at 2 am and she’s gone! Silently you walk to the computer room.

She’s totally fixated and oblivious to your approach. This is what you see. Now you KNOW. She's hooked. Don’t you just hate it? Don’t you just love it? Isn’t it the most inexplicable thing you’ve ever met?

Watching Internet Porn is Fascinating. Isn't It...

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If you are a wife or woman with a story, you are encouraged to post a few lines here. 

Helpless, Erotic Compulsion

Cuckoldry is associated with feelings of shame, weakness, helplessness, trepidation, insecurity and fear. Yet guilt-fueled arousal and erotic excitement also reach exponential intensity. Men have reported spontaneous orgasms, and women have reported becoming soaked – instantly, and that merely from discussing this with her or his spouse. If Nature intends for this phenomena to lead to sexual activity, a more effective mechanism could hardly be imagined.

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In many marriages a time comes when secret yearnings cannot be repressed or ignored. Like so many ocean waves, secret thoughts or desires surface repeatedly. Time and again they are pushed back down inside from where they came. We do so out of fear of what might be – if the truth were told.

But for some, this strategy fails. It fails because no less than ocean waves that recede after each wave, those desires return with redoubled force. It may be a week or years, but that desire will return. Each time, it gathers more strength. Each time, the shock of it lessens, and the appeal of it increases. These desires seem more natural and less objectionable. With each season, these desires reward the woman or man in question with greater pleasure.

Whether you resist the cuckold fetish THIS time is irrelevant. That desire will return. It will come with renewed urgency. The naturalness, beauty, pleasure, power and eroticism will make it harder to resist. The goodness, rightness and pleasure it makes you feel erodes the ability to resist. And each time, those qualities are more apparent to us. So if not this time, then the next time, and if not then, it will be the time after that.

The sense that this is SUPPOSED to be will only grow. And there is no escaping it.

Once your wife discovers the pleasures of a fantasy lover, once this desire becomes the script that controls and drives her response, she isn’t going to change. Once your husband acquires a taste for cuckoldry, once he decides that he loves it, that’s it! It’s over.

There’s really very little you or anyone else can do to save him. 

So instead, we choose to hide these thoughts; only allowing ourselves to ponder them during moments of extreme arousal brought on by sexual fantasies of the most perverse nature. But, once in while, someone in a marriage will break the normal pattern and choose to admit the secret lusts of their heart.

And sometimes, they find that their spouse is eager finally to act upon them.
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Have you wanted that conversation with your spouse? Have you tried to host it? How did it go?

Wet Panties

Rougedmount's artistry requires no justification. Read it and enjoy!
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Soft white creamy full thighs draw your eye

The contrast of black panties inciting your arousal
You want to bite them, kiss them, lick them
You want to squeeze them and raise gooseflesh
Hands aching to touch the fullness of my body
With a heavy masculine hand and gentle touch
You can barely see my secret female flesh
The softened seam and fullness of lips
Through the gauzy not quite sheer fabric
Can you imagine what my sex feels like?
Through the inconvenient silk over my sweetness
The full press of your palm, your fingers
And finally your mouth as you press lips there
You can feel the heat burn through the barrier
You can see the wetness start to seep through
Deep drawn breath draws my lascivious scent
Your lungs and mind bursting with my aroma
Imagine hooking the smooth elastic band
With the tip of your finger to expose me
Your carnal mood makes your cock jump
As the tingling engorgement swells your flesh
Decisions to tear the panties off completely
Discard them carelessly and take your bounty
Or to tease yourself by slowly peeling them
Down my thighs to tangle around ankles
Your imagination runs rampant with possibilities
Will I arch toward your mouth and hands?
Will I passively comply with your wanted attention?
Can you illicit my delighted sighs or make me beg?
Will you hear my guttural sensual commands
As I verbally direct you to service my needs?
If I denied you the access you desperately wanted
Behind the shimmering veil of my wet panties
How long would it take you to actually remove them?

A Simple Question ... And An Invitation to Discussion

Questions are curious things. Once in our heads, they make us think and think and think and think and think. They don't quit or shut up, and they just won't go away.

Questions meddle with our minds, invade our interest, kindle our curiosity, and push aside older thoughts to make room for new ideas to grow. It's as if the new ideas WANT to expand and fill the picture.

Take Dan Savage. He writes edgy stuff. His articles prod things that some people believe shouldn't be disturbed. But if there's nothing to it, why should it matter? And if there IS something to it, why run from it? If it is true, why shouldn't we discuss it?

Consider Dan's Feb 21, 2014 post for the Washington City Paper.

His title line asks, 'Why Do Husbands Like Cuckolding?' Some suggest that's something that ought NEVER be mentioned! Yet there it is, published for the world to read.

The article opens with a reader letter.

'I am a straight male, married to a woman for 25 years. Our marriage started to go sour about 14 years ago. Sex was infrequent and stultifying.'

It seems that man found another of Dan's articles on cuckoldry. He mentioned the article to his wife who asked him to read it. Discussion followed. Some would say, 'that discussion ought NEVER to have happened.' But apparently, it did.

And the dynamics in their relationship changed considerably!

Mr. Savage offers thoughts and quotes for the remainder his article. These seem to have poked and prodded another reader's mind. Elana writes the following:

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'This can work. I know of several husbands that are into this. I think it is only going to grow.

As a woman I know it is very taboo to consider this arrangement. I struggle with it my self.

It turns my husband and I on very much, but it is hard to move forward without feeling guilty, or at the least very out of place.

I think as women we need to talk more openly about this. Men for centuries have had multiple lovers.

As women why can't we?
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Elana says much in these few lines.

'This can work' shows conviction based on her own reflection and some personal inquiry. Also note the strength of Elana's own desire. She says that both she and her husband are powerfully aroused by the cuckold motif. She admits that she herself wants to do this.

That it is 'very taboo' even to 'consider' such arrangements doesn't speak against it at all. This speaks FOR it. Even though she struggles against guilt and feeling 'very out of place,' she sets herself toward it and sees it as the future. This reveals the strength of her desire. Hard as it is to 'move forward,' it's pretty clear that she is determined to do so.
 
Elana knows that it can work, and that it IS the future. How did she come to this? Likely, she discussed it with the 'several husbands' she knows -- possibly with her own husband present. Clearly, she discussed it with her husband since she knows that he is very aroused by it just as she is.

But the key that will determine all this is the simple, undeniable fact that both she and her husband are extremely aroused by it. For them, this arises naturally as they explore their sexual lives. That's why the naysayers can't win, and why mainstream cuckoldry is inevitable. It's why more blogs, websites and clubs are devoted to it all the time.

For the awakening cuckoldrix, this can't happen fast enough!

How much better would this be if Elana DIDN'T feel 'out of place!' How much easier would it be if only she had opportunity to discuss these things in a safe, supportive environment!

And that is exactly what she wants when she says that 'as women we need to talk more openly about this.'

That is why this blog is here, however much some wish it wasn't.

This blog exists as a safe place where women, their husbands and lovers can discuss and grow new ideas about cuckoldry and related issues.

Elana notes that men have always had multiple lovers. Always. Then she asks that simple question, a question that nags, irritates and just won't leave one be:

'As women, why can't we?'

And again, I couldn't agree more!

The cuckolding idea deeply arouses Elana and her husband. Why should ostracism or censure be the price for what both Elana and her husband desire greatly?

It's not Elana – it's her would-be critics who misguidedly project their expectations and moral code onto others who are at fault. Their actions are reprehensible and disgusting. 

Elana's question encourages women to find courage to explore this aspect of their sexuality just as she has. If women are encouraged in this direction, if women are supported as they broaden their relationships, this blog will have achieved its purpose. 

Elana's question bears repeating:

'Can we at least begin discussing this more openly?'

Precisely because some attack the world's 'Elanas' for their courage, posts are reviewed before appearing here.

No women, girlfriends, husbands, boyfriends or lovers will be denigrated on this blog because they commit to exploring this aspect of our human sexuality.

And reader responses are always welcome.