Extracting a Husband's Cuckold-Desire Confession

Based on a post made years ago, this 'outing' of a husband's cuckold desire is timeless.  Perhaps wives or husbands will have similar stories to share.
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I was reading your site the other night. I was so turned on by what you post that I got careless. Sure enough, last night I got busted. My wife found me in our den at 2:00 AM with my eyes glued to your site and hand frisking my dick! “Let me see what you’re reading.” I nearly shit myself on the spot. I quit what I was doing and grabbed for the mouse. She anticipated my move and blocked my hand. I was embarrassed, shocked, and figured I’d be in deep dung. I thought that she’d be very upset...but she wasn't! Apparently, she had even stood by the door for several minutes. She could see that I wasn’t looking at pictures, so she must have been curious about what it was that had me going.

She soon saw! She said, “you’re turned on by well hung men doing women, aren’t you.” It wasn’t a question. She said it. I had to confess that yes, I was. Then she floored me by saying that a guy with a huge cock recently seduced her best friend at work. I couldn’t believe what happened next! She sat down with me and started reading! Soon she was nodding her head in agreement. She said that that this was exactly what her friend was telling her. She said that ever since this guy started nailing her, she was always coming in telling her how “unreal” the sex was. I begged her to tell me everything she said! As she did, I HAD to do it! I started jerking more furiously than ever before in my life!

Well, that led to more talk for several hours. Sure enough, she finally wheedled, teased and excited me to the point that I admitted to her that yes, I mostly fantasize about HER having sex with well-hung men. That surprised her, but she was visibly excited as well. Then we ended up doing it right there on the floor while talking about just that!

That is a HUGE step! I have no idea where this is going. But I know this! That “door” is now open. I’m sure that my wife is discussing this with her friend at work. What wouldn’t I give to hear what she says to my wife! From now on, I plan to make sure that she is home and the kids are asleep so that we can view your site TOGETHER. Your low-key, low graphics site where women can tell their stories honestly has made an impression on her. If my wife ever ends up taking on majorly heavy penis, it’ll be because of your site and her best friend and my own admissions agree on these things. It’s a powerful combination.

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Given that they were talking at work already, it seems a foregoing conclusion that this wife would be eager to have a story to share with her friend that confirmed what she was hearing. Did this friend encourage this wife to enjoy the big penis difference? Where do you think this went? Have you a story to share? Do you WISH you had a story to share?

Fanning Smoldering Cuckold Desire Into Flame

Being a man is more than having a penis.

Honesty, truth and disclosure play their own part. Manhood also means knowing and sometimes admitting one's limitations. Admission of inadequacy and declaration of need implies vulnerability And for some men, that in turn can mean facing their worst fears. As much as they may desire and truly need complete honesty, some men simply cannot be vulnerable and truthful. Not even with the one they love most in life. In fact, especially not with her.

For many a man with an undeveloped penis, it can be a solitary horror to discuss sexual issues with his wife. Certain matters assume 'official secret' status. He is loathe to admit his most intimate issues with 'her;' much less has he strength actually to discuss such things in detail. Instead, he wallows in secret inhibition and insecurity. 

Still, the temptation to openness and honesty with his wife is strong! But even as honesty tempts disclosure, fear and insecurity gnaw his resolve, paralyzing him in inaction. Try as he may, many a small man 'jams' when trying to host this conservation. No matter how much he wishes it, or how how hard he may try, he can never be honest about his desires with his wife. And as he can never be honest, he cannot mature sexually, and their sexual relationship cannot progress.

'...one of the things that has become abundantly clear and fascinates me to no end, is just how many small-endowed men crave this same fantasy. And, they don’t just want to watch their wives having sex with another man; they want the other man to be supremely more endowed and even better in bed. The fascinating question that must be asked is why do so many small-endowed men harbor this fantasy?'

The small-endowed man knows that his inability to discuss intimate matters with his wife is unmanly to the extreme. Yet he will not repair this because he cannot. Most likely, he neither wants to stop it, nor CAN he, since his cuckold fantasies compel an extremely powerful erotic response. These dynamics work together making it impossible for the small-endowed man to escape this conundrum. Consequently, it eats at him relentlessly.

Cuckold desire sticks. Once truly beholden to it, men don't abandon it. They do not shake this fetish. It is extremely addictive to them. Knowing this, some women put this knowledge to very good use. So do some well-endowed lovers who want to seduce and bed married women. They have even been known to elicit an under-endowed husband's perspective and help in delivering up his wife to be seduced by the stud.

Understanding these dynamics, some wives resolve their husband's dilemma for him. They broach the subject FOR their husbands. Then they arouse him with these thoughts in order to seduce and elicit his ardent consent for her to take a very well-endowed man.

Well-endowed men understand this.

So do other wives married to Mr. Little.

Do you?
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If you are a wife who wishes you could broach this with your husband, how do you feel about the fact that many small-endowed men share this fantasy?

If you are a small husband, is the fetish_suppression/fetish_arousal conundrum the irresistible temptation that draws you in time and time again, gradually wearing you down and eliciting your internal consent for your wife to experience the pleasure she deserves?

Helpless, Erotic Compulsion

Cuckoldry is associated with feelings of shame, weakness, helplessness, trepidation, insecurity and fear. Yet guilt-fueled arousal and erotic excitement also reach exponential intensity. Men have reported spontaneous orgasms, and women have reported becoming soaked – instantly, and that merely from discussing this with her or his spouse. If Nature intends for this phenomena to lead to sexual activity, a more effective mechanism could hardly be imagined.

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In many marriages a time comes when secret yearnings cannot be repressed or ignored. Like so many ocean waves, secret thoughts or desires surface repeatedly. Time and again they are pushed back down inside from where they came. We do so out of fear of what might be – if the truth were told.

But for some, this strategy fails. It fails because no less than ocean waves that recede after each wave, those desires return with redoubled force. It may be a week or years, but that desire will return. Each time, it gathers more strength. Each time, the shock of it lessens, and the appeal of it increases. These desires seem more natural and less objectionable. With each season, these desires reward the woman or man in question with greater pleasure.

Whether you resist the cuckold fetish THIS time is irrelevant. That desire will return. It will come with renewed urgency. The naturalness, beauty, pleasure, power and eroticism will make it harder to resist. The goodness, rightness and pleasure it makes you feel erodes the ability to resist. And each time, those qualities are more apparent to us. So if not this time, then the next time, and if not then, it will be the time after that.

The sense that this is SUPPOSED to be will only grow. And there is no escaping it.

Once your wife discovers the pleasures of a fantasy lover, once this desire becomes the script that controls and drives her response, she isn’t going to change. Once your husband acquires a taste for cuckoldry, once he decides that he loves it, that’s it! It’s over.

There’s really very little you or anyone else can do to save him. 

So instead, we choose to hide these thoughts; only allowing ourselves to ponder them during moments of extreme arousal brought on by sexual fantasies of the most perverse nature. But, once in while, someone in a marriage will break the normal pattern and choose to admit the secret lusts of their heart.

And sometimes, they find that their spouse is eager finally to act upon them.
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Have you wanted that conversation with your spouse? Have you tried to host it? How did it go?