A Cuckold is Made -- One Man's Story:

This was posted  years ago on a forum that is now defunct. But its lessons remain relevant today.
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Spotting the Competition ...

Bill had always shown an interest in my wife--even before I was into the Hot Wife thing.

My wife and I were visiting her cousin in Salt Lake. While we were there, her cousin's husband, Bill, and I went to the YMCA to play some racquet ball. As size goes, I’m near average length but am well on the thin side of the ledger (I’m at the bottom 20% according to the "definitive penis survey"). That’s especially so after I exercise. At that time, I have a very small flaccid penis.

After play, we hit the men’s hot tub. As I got in the tub, Bill got that "cat that swallowed the canary" smile. As I say, he was always interested in my wife. But once he saw my tiny pecker, he pursued her very aggressively! I honestly think that as soon as he saw it, Bill knew that my wife was his for the taking. I say so because he made his play right away. In fact, he was so confident that he put the moves on her that very night.

Your wife is the prize. He sizes up the competition. You!

We spent that evening watching a couple of movies. Bill did things like pulling her down on his lap when she walked past him. In fact she sat on his lap for one whole movie. Every time she got up to do something, she would return right to his lap. At the time, both his wife and I thought this was innocent flirting. But I learned later that she was stealing touches of him the whole night. That was when and how my wife found out Bill has a very thick cock.

Conveniently, my in-laws lived in Scottsdale, and my wife decided that she had to try on Bill's thick cock for size. It ended up that Bill had several sessions fucking my wife over about a three week period when he was doing some business traveling to Phoenix. She thought she was going to keep me from finding out, but Bill confessed to her cousin. That caused a divorce between them.

I learned about this while tidying the desk. I found a letter to my wife from her cousin. She was trying to reconcile their relationship two years after the divorce. I actually had a hunch of what happened, and the letter confirmed it.

When this came out, my wife was ripped with guilt. She told Bill and he began making advances for my wife to leave me for him. And even though she was very sorry, she was definitely very, very tempted, so much so that I nearly lost her. Thankfully, she had admitted that thicker is definitely better. So I knew what was drawing her to Bill.

The turning point came one night when I agreed that it was OK by me if she took a hung lover (so long as she stayed with me). That did it. The next day she rebuffed Bill (for which I am very thankful) and we stayed together. But every time we fuck, all I can think of is her enjoying his thick cock. That fantasy is soooooo hot!

That is what caused me to be a hot wife lover. My favorite part of it is when she home from being fucked with that ‘ha ha—I got the best of you and had fun doing it’ smile on her face, and I absolutely love her for it.

The Expectant Cuckold

Size and the Expectation of Cuckoldry

Questions have a way of getting at things. They reveal deeply believed assumptions, expectations, doubts, fears, desires and dreams. Some questions are especially fascinating because our responses to them can reveal our strengths, weaknesses and inward inclinations. This is especially so if one is pushed to total openness and honesty. In fact it's quite amazing how completely life can be changed with a question followed by an honest discussion or confession.

Say that a heavily endowed man is very attracted to your wife. He also knows that you're sexually underdeveloped. Do you see this as one more guy who wants your wife, OR is the situation different simply because the man who wants your wife is very well endowed and he knows you're not?

Example:

Is an under-endowed husband apt to assume that this endowed man ...

Is pleased to know that her husband is so small?
Sees his wife differently because of this?
Wonders how satisfying her sex-life can be?
Thinks his wife more likely can be seduced?
Will be emboldened to explore her sexual availability?
Can ‘smell success’ with his wife sexually?

In short, can a husband with diminutive sex organs expect well-endowed men 'in the know' to decide to seduce his wife?

Moreover, will this husband with diminutive sex organs ...

Assume that this stud is experienced with women?
Assume that this man means to seduce his wife?
Imagine the stud and his wife as sex partners?
Imagine his wife responding very differently with him?
Experience angst when this endowed male is near her?

In short, can a husband's underdevelopment cause deep angst, paralyzing timidity, fear of humiliating exposure, or even extreme arousal, so that he watches helpless to intervene as a very well-endowed man takes his wife?

The interesting thing about such questions and associated feelings and emotions is the very potent role they can play in preparing the husband to participate in his own cuckolding!

Many a small-endowed husband is convinced that his diminutive size makes his wife susceptible to cuckolding, that Nature intends for this to happen, and that Nature has very well endowed men because they are supposed to press that advantage to seduce, pleasure and seed their wives.

Why wouldn't well-endowed men awaken this angst, fear, emotion and arousal to put little guys off balance, and to begin guiding his response so that despite himself and because of himself, the small husband begins to participate in his own cuckolding? The well-endowed man has everything to gain.

That is exactly why such questions are so disturbing, powerful and arousing for the small husband. They are powerful because they touch what the under-endowed husband believes is utterly true.

He is an expectant cuckold.
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Speaking of the potent role of questions and discussions, imagine that both the very well-endowed male and the wife of the under-endowed husband together questioned him on such things.

If you have thoughts or experiences to share, you are welcome to do so.

If anything stirs some response in you, leave a note in the comment section.

It Matters ...

It Matters...

In poetic form and with compelling expression, rougedmont's blog shares how and why the male anatomy matters.
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it matters more than you think it does

women are afraid to state their preference

because our vagina’s are designed for diversity

the average adult vagina is 3-4 inches long

when it is un-aroused, un-lubricated, un-inspired

3 to 4 inches long in our natural and flaccid state

we elongate to beautifully expand our pleated folds

to comfortably accommodate both girth and length

of the erect and aroused phallus looking to penetrate us

our depth can vary between women to take 8 to 12 inches

before our cervix would be bruised from his thrusting

we can shorten our depth depending on sexual position

we can make a tighter fit with strong pelvic floor muscles

even though childbirth will alter things forever to different

we are built to comfortably encase a well endowed man

when we are excited and aroused ourselves

the more excited we get, the bigger the man we can take

yet even a flaccid vagina can accept the barely felt intrusion

of a man who can’t even fill you when bored and uninterested

the ache of un-fulfillment throbs with your uterine contractions

as you orgasm and are still left wanting something deeper

something wider to allow your body to respond as it was meant to

Could you make and live with this decision?

letting your vagina hold onto the thick pulsing cock in a death grip

of pleasured milking sensations and suctioning wanted intrusions

instead of having the tactile sensation of internal pressure devoid

from your partners lack of endowment when you are aroused

it matters more than most women will admit

for fear of hurting feelings or making size a priority

especially if you know exactly what you are missing

when you decide to settle for a small cock sexual experience
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Sisters: Is rougedmont's last point a mistake you made? What would be your thoughts to your best girlfriend if she asked you about these things?

A Woman's Fantasy, In White, Cotton Briefs

White Cotton Briefs ...

Sparing no puritanical minds, Rougedmount's smoldering fantasy beautifies the object of her desire, and vindicates her desire for it.
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god… it’s so absolutely, perfectly, brilliantly deliciously divine, seeing a well endowed man in his cotton underwear. seeing the plain of his stomach, the slightly increasing fur as it disappears downwards into the band. the delineation, the curves, the swelling definition of his concealed endowment is almost more than i can take.

If honesty is a virtue, should not women be honest?

my mouth salivates after going dry. i instinctively swallow and lick my lips after biting them. it is virtually impossible to raise my eyes or look elsewhere as the perfectly packaged mound of his flesh is right there. almost touchable. my imagination is flying into every naughty thing i have ever seen or witnessed, as i envision myself taking him.

a band of white, a delicate veil that hides nothing and showcases everything while maintaining a modesty that is irrelevant considering all that it exposes to my eager eyes. i can see his resting shape and imagine him in the full bloom of arousal. i see the curved perfection of his softest and most vulnerable sack, tightly held front and center as if he was at the height of arousal.

i can imagine him elongating, swelling and taking shape beneath my heated gaze. tenting the material until it is threadbare and provides a shadowed low light of definition which highlights his arching pillar which is striated with a myriad of veins and ropy topography. the indentation of a plumed head almost makes me breathless, as it’s heart shape inspires my pulse to race.

with everything i have seen, in truth, i have actually seen nothing and his modesty is intact, his virtue upheld by the meagerest of thread counts. as much as his appearance in his briefs has impacted me, he is in fact covered. it is only in my mind that he is also covered by my mouth, my hands and my body as i force his physical response into turgidity and a resulting tumescence as his arousal seeps through the cotton in a perfect damp spot of desire.
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The pretense of an untainted mind, or courage to speak honestly -- which is virtuous?

Women who embrace their desires and affirm the beauty of them are welcome to offer their thoughts for a post. Be vindicated.

The Cuckolding Fetish: When Your Wife’s Cheating Turns You On

Some husbands like to watch their wives cheat. Welcome to ‘cuckolding,’ a taboo fetish that is far more common than you might think. 

Imagine hearing your wife whisper in your ear, telling you all the naughty things she did with a coworker in the backseat of your car. Instead of getting jealous, it turns you on. 

 

Maybe you enjoy the idea of how desirable your wife is. Or maybe you want to watch while she cheats on you, taunting you, forcing you to get involved in humiliating ways.

Again, welcome to “cuckolding,” a taboo fetish that is far more common than you might think.

 
By definition, of course, a cuckold is the “husband of an adulteress.” The phenomenon itself is nothing new (see the works of Shakespeare or Chaucer). It might even be considered universal, since dozens of languages have a term that refers to it. Today’s cuckolding fetish, however, takes the deception and betrayal out of cheating—both partners are in on the secret.

While the average person may think the idea of sharing a spouse is horrific, the NASCA (North American Swing Club Association) estimates that at least 15 percent of married couples have opted for the swinger lifestyle. While swinging isn’t exactly cuckolding, the idea of willfully sharing a partner remains. According to Dr. Paul Abramson, a professor of psychology at UCLA and lead singer of Crying 4 Kafka, “Traditional American heterosexual relationships are built on monogamy. Cuckolding would thus be relationship suicide. But for relationships that have different boundaries, the impact might be trivial.” He says that if 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce, cuckolding can’t be the only thing to blame.

According to the General Social Survey conducted by the National Opinion Research Center, 19 percent of men and 14 percent of women admitted (key word: admitted) to having an extra-marital affair. Those statistics make sense considering the popularity of cheating websites like AshleyMadison.com that tout over 8 million members (that’s roughly about 2.5 percent of the U.S. population). Technology, of course, makes it easier to have a discreet affair.

Take Tinder, the newest hook-up craze. Download the app, find people within a certain radius, and swipe left or right based on whether you think the person is attractive. While the exact amount of booty calls generated by Tinder is impossible to pin down, Tinder founder and CEO Sean Rad told TechCrunch that the app witnesses 3.5 million matches along with 350 million swipes a day. And how many of those people are already in a relationship? Infidelity isn’t always the death of a relationship. For some, it seems to be a spark.

Infidelity isn’t always the death of a relationship. For some, it seems to be a spark.

Some believe that cuckolding is really just exposed infidelity. In some ways, it spices up a sex life without the added guilt of cheating. While this fetish isn’t for the insecure, it’s certainly not for monogamists. (It’s definitely not for me [i.e., Aurora Snow]).

Isadora Almen, a licensed psychotherapist and board certified sexologist, says that the cuckold phenomenon cannot be explained any more than someone’s desire for bosomy blondes or being spanked. It’s an individual kink, one that she’s been answering questions about since the ‘80s. Almen says a man wouldn’t feel like he was a victim. Instead, he might think of himself as “particularly generous in seeing to his woman’s pleasure.” She adds a warning: “I wouldn’t recommend it as a sex therapist for spicing up one's love life. It could lead to jealousy and resentment. It’s pretty out there for most people and in many cases it’s the woman who is resentful and not the man whose kink it is.”

It’s not always about acting out a fantasy, sometimes it’s enough to just watch. Mean Cuckold is the highest selling DVD producer and director Glenn King has ever released. King says people are bored with regular sex. “Cuckolding is a way to humiliate a slave or explore sexuality," he says. "Infidelity is just performing the physical act of cheating on your spouse. You could say though, that infidelity is one way to cuckold a submissive.”
The act of cuckolding can often be filed under the female domination tab, as is evident in King’s series. There are three types of cuckolded men: the submissive, forced bisexual, and the voyeurs. “Submissives are into humiliation,” King says. “They fantasize about being degraded and humiliated by a beautiful woman. Second, you have guys who want to be pushed into exploring their darkest fantasies: forced bisexuality. They want to be pushed by their mistress into doing things they would never do, like worshipping another man. Then lastly, we have voyeurs, who just enjoy watching their lover get pleasured by another man. And to take it a step further, for those older males who grew up in the South, watching your woman have sex with a black man is absolutely shocking.”
If cuckolding is just another kink, like BDSM, why do so many shy away from ever mentioning it? Almen says it’s really all in the definition. “Cuckolding has always had with it the element of shame,” she says. “It really points the finger of shame at a man whose woman would go outside the relationship.” 
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My husband told me to sleep with another man

Some years ago, a woman posted about her experience on the Dear Cupid forum. That resulted in a number of replies, which will not be posted here. Her experiences stand and they are what they are. Perhaps readers have some insight or similar stories to share.  Without changing meaning or details, this story has been edited for readability.
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My husband of two years gave me permission to have sex with other men. I did not ask

him for this. One day while we were raking the yard, he just told me. Why when we were raking the yard? Wouldn't the bedroom be a better place? Well, my husband marches to only his drum.

My husband was my first boyfriend and my first lover. I felt abandoned, unloved and told him so. His answer was that sooner or later, I would want sex with someone else. He didn't want me to feel pressured to cheat and put our relationship at risk. He said that he would rather that my need be fulfilled without guilt.

I told him I would never do it. But after thinking for six months or so what it would be like with this or that cute guy, I told my husband I wanted to have sex with a guy from the gym. He asked how I felt about it. I told him I loved him dearly but he has been the only sex partner I have had, and I would like to know what sex is like with someone else.

Arrangements were made and we met at a motel. I felt scared, but it turned out to be pretty nice. I felt a little guilty afterwards. When I got home, I told my husband about it and asked him if he still felt alright about this. He said everything was fine. Since then, I have had sex with three other men.

I feel much sexier and more confident about myself. Is this what a person is supposed to feel? I am pretty happy about this, and I don't see any difference in my husbands feelings towards me.

I want to see more men over the years. I like this. Is this the way it is for most women? Do other women feel this kind of satisfaction? Is my husband right for letting me do this? I know our lifestyle is different. But will he be harassed if someone finds out?
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Has your husband expressed willingness to allow you to experience pleasure from another? What might your reaction be if he did and why?

Have you wanted to share such things with your wife? If so, what happened? If not, why not? What holds you back?

Toward Understanding Cuckold Desire

When Mistress Zhang combines smoldering sensuality and an erudite tongue, the resulting read is compelling in thought, style and honesty that cannot be ignored.

An extraordinarily capable Dominatrix, Mistress Zhang here plumbs in depth the cuckold's psycho-sexual self for insight on the oft asked query, 'WHY is this desire so powerful.'
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The Mind of the Cuckold Explained: History, Culture, Psychology

“A man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh…What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate”. (Matthew 19:3-8)

  
…unless the man throws away his basket of stones and encourages his wife to commit adultery.

Have you ever fantasized about seeing your wife or girlfriend with another man? Do the thoughts of her cheating on you, having fantastic sex with other men, and coming home to tell you about it arouse you? Do you want to understand why you feel this way?

The humiliation of infidelity can be so sweet and oftentimes a higher source of pleasure than sex itself.

You, My humble reader, will now find out why.

As a Dominatrix, I have noticed that one of the most common fetishes amongst My submissives is the fantasy of being cuckolded by Me or their female partners. My subs come from all over the world — US, Asia, Middle East, Europe, Central & South America, Africa. That men from different cultural backgrounds express a common interest tells Me something about the universality of this most intriguing fetish. Cuckoldry, when a man derives sexual arousal by thinking about or watching his female partner having sex with another man, has a powerful psychological effect with dimensions shaped by society and biology.

You may be wondering: Why is the fetish considered a taboo? Why would a man want to be cheated on by his wife? What sorts of pleasures does it really bring for the couple? 
Let’s go diving!

WHY CUCKOLDRY CLASHES WITH MAINSTREAM CULTURE


My cuckold submissives find themselves internally conflicted with this ‘strange’ desire. Cuckoldry is considered a fetish because its very oddity betrays a fundamental and age-old norm that has been the guiding light in much of the Western world since the dawn of agriculture. Yes, I am referring to monogamy. Let’s go waayyyyyyyy back. Out of the 1200 societies in the world, less than 200 of those encourage/enforce monogamous relationships between men and women. Since the advent of agriculture and ownership of property some 10,000 years ago, civilization became more complex, requiring the energy and care by both parents to ensure the survival of their offspring. When a monogamous pair begets children, passing property on to one’s offspring requires one to be certain of paternity. Those kids are mine, those kids will get my stuff.

In the powerful states and empires of antiquity — Peru, India, China, Egypt, Mesopotamia just to name a few — the commoners were expected to be monogamous while the elite ruling class often practiced polygyny. Religious institutions were also champions of the monogamy model. The benefits of monogamy is that it encourages a large population of model citizens to produce more model children to serve the state/church, it equalizes sexual reproductivity between high-status males and low-status males (there is now a girl for every boy, instead of many girls for just the boy with all the toys), and it ensures legacy.


Monogamy is idealized and institutionalized in societies in which a lot of effort must be spent to acquire resources and establish one’s territory. In other words, go to school, get a job, buy a house, take a girl on a date & marry her & raise children together with the money you earned from all those years of schooling and job training. Raising a child in a first-world country is A LOT of work. Therefore, bi-parental care is necessary. Monogamy serves the common man with limited resources, it serves the state that needs an ideal to guide and control its citizens, it serves the elite who needs a stable labor force. Polygyny is for the wealthy who can afford it.


We are socialized to accept the millenniums-old belief that monogamy is a virtue, and that infidelity is equated with immorality, emotional instability, and narcissism. In the book The Myth of Monogamy, authors Dr. David P. Barash and Dr. Judith Lipton wrote:

“Once a monogamous code exists, violating that code is antithetical to higher levels of civilization and of personal development”.

By now you must know that humans are not naturally monogamous. Otherwise infidelity would not occur. Nevertheless, we are taught to remain faithful to our partners and never stray. Sigmund Freud argued that if an urge is not instinctive, then we wouldn’t need the restriction. Monogamy is a restriction above all else, and Freud suggests that civilization is built on the repression of the instincts.


How does this relate to cuckoldry? Cuckoldry contradicts the very ideals upon which monogamy is founded, and, furthermore, it contradicts the popular notion of men being territorial, jealous baboons.

THE TYPICAL CUCKOLD

The vast majority of cuckolds are men in their 30s and up, and living comfortable lifestyles. They are usually married or have remained in long-term relationships. They are usually alpha males with above-average intelligence, hold high-power executive positions in their work and earn above-average incomes. Due to all of this, they need more mental stimulation than the average man.

The men are almost always the ones to instigate a cuckold lifestyle.

THE REAL PLEASURES BEHIND CUCKOLDRY

Paradoxically, the central figure that cuckoldry serves is the “victimized”, “humiliated” man. He is the one who experiences the most pleasure in this dynamic.

A man with a cuckold fetish derives his pleasure from the mental anguish and humiliation that results from his wife’s infidelity. (I use the words “infidelity” and “cheating” within the context of a consensual arrangement). He is immensely aroused by the thought of his woman with another man, lusted by other men. He wants to see his partner satisfied, and by doing so he now has a ‘private porn collection’ by which he uses to masturbate and fantasize. This is more rewarding than actual sex with his partner.

By being the cuckold, he willingly assumes the position of the sexual submissive. He is submissive to his wife, and he is now lowered in rank in respect to the other man having sex with his wife. He and his partner often ‘complete’ this fantasy by having sex right after she cheats on him.

Being a cuckold is to experience a form of psychological masochism. It is a cerebral pursuit whereby the man feels a kaleidoscope of feelings such as jealousy, misery, gratitude, shame, sublimation, inadequacy, and lust. It is a mental version of sensation play in which the emotions themselves are the sources of pleasure, bringing out some of our most intense reptilian instincts. A highly intelligent individual wants to experience this ‘psychological high’ for two reasons: to feel alive, and to feel diminished from the loss of control. In the book Masochism and the Self, author Roy Baumeister explains:

"Cuckolding is a form of escapism. Cucks are relieving themselves of the stress and burden of their social role and escaping into a simpler, less expansive role."

Small penis humiliation is a point of focus for the victim. The other man is often more well-endowed, more handsome, and referred to as a “Bull”. The physical superiority of the other man adds to the humiliation of the husband.

Lastly, cuckoldry gives some men the chance to vicariously explore their repressed bisexual urges. While it is arousing to watch their wife with someone else, for some it is just as exciting to watch a naked man have sex, period. The wife who understands her husband’s bisexual curiosities would sometimes command him to service the Bull during foreplay.

EVOLUTIONARY PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND THE CUCKOLD FETISH
 
Psychologists have attributed the cuckold fetish to theories rooted in evolutionary biology. With all these submissives from all parts of the world sharing the same fetish, it is not absurd to think cuckoldry triggers something inherent in our nature as human beings.

Cuckoldry induces sexual competition among men. In the book Sperm Wars: Infidelity, Sexual Conflict, and Other Bedroom Battles, author Robin Baker argues that a man is incentivized by biological urges to copulate with his partner in an effort to “compete” with the other man’s sperm. From an evolutionary perspective, the mere idea of one’s wife cheating and straying is a risk to his genetic success, and it is a male’s duty to make sure that his own sperm makes it to the egg. Get away from that womb, it’s MINE for the impregnating!
 
When we first meet our partners-to-be, the very fact that they were initially unattainable — and thus taming them would be a glorious challenge — is what attracted us to them in the first place. They are a prize to be won, and this desire fuels our pursuits. As a relationship grows and settles into a comfortable routine involving dinner and Netflix, the strong desire we felt at the beginning naturally subsides. We stop being the hunter. The exciting world of cuckoldry ‘re-activates’ our hunter mentality, causing us to want our partners again with all the intensified feelings about risk and possible denial. This is further enhanced with the knowledge that although our partners have sexually strayed from us, we can still bathe in the comfort that they will always come home us. Cuckoldry allows you to have your cake and eat it too.

Hopefully, by now you will have gained a better understanding of your own cuckold fantasies with a little more acceptance and proactive curiosity. The benefits of exploring cuckoldry is rich with emotions and sexual gratification when honest and open communication take place. As a Dominatrix, I will help you take that first step into becoming that poorly-endowed, sexually inadequate, semen-cleaning bitch of a man you have always wanted to be.
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Extracting a Husband's Cuckold-Desire Confession

Based on a post made years ago, this 'outing' of a husband's cuckold desire is timeless.  Perhaps wives or husbands will have similar stories to share.
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I was reading your site the other night. I was so turned on by what you post that I got careless. Sure enough, last night I got busted. My wife found me in our den at 2:00 AM with my eyes glued to your site and hand frisking my dick! “Let me see what you’re reading.” I nearly shit myself on the spot. I quit what I was doing and grabbed for the mouse. She anticipated my move and blocked my hand. I was embarrassed, shocked, and figured I’d be in deep dung. I thought that she’d be very upset...but she wasn't! Apparently, she had even stood by the door for several minutes. She could see that I wasn’t looking at pictures, so she must have been curious about what it was that had me going.

She soon saw! She said, “you’re turned on by well hung men doing women, aren’t you.” It wasn’t a question. She said it. I had to confess that yes, I was. Then she floored me by saying that a guy with a huge cock recently seduced her best friend at work. I couldn’t believe what happened next! She sat down with me and started reading! Soon she was nodding her head in agreement. She said that that this was exactly what her friend was telling her. She said that ever since this guy started nailing her, she was always coming in telling her how “unreal” the sex was. I begged her to tell me everything she said! As she did, I HAD to do it! I started jerking more furiously than ever before in my life!

Well, that led to more talk for several hours. Sure enough, she finally wheedled, teased and excited me to the point that I admitted to her that yes, I mostly fantasize about HER having sex with well-hung men. That surprised her, but she was visibly excited as well. Then we ended up doing it right there on the floor while talking about just that!

That is a HUGE step! I have no idea where this is going. But I know this! That “door” is now open. I’m sure that my wife is discussing this with her friend at work. What wouldn’t I give to hear what she says to my wife! From now on, I plan to make sure that she is home and the kids are asleep so that we can view your site TOGETHER. Your low-key, low graphics site where women can tell their stories honestly has made an impression on her. If my wife ever ends up taking on majorly heavy penis, it’ll be because of your site and her best friend and my own admissions agree on these things. It’s a powerful combination.

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Given that they were talking at work already, it seems a foregoing conclusion that this wife would be eager to have a story to share with her friend that confirmed what she was hearing. Did this friend encourage this wife to enjoy the big penis difference? Where do you think this went? Have you a story to share? Do you WISH you had a story to share?

Fanning Smoldering Cuckold Desire Into Flame

Being a man is more than having a penis.

Honesty, truth and disclosure play their own part. Manhood also means knowing and sometimes admitting one's limitations. Admission of inadequacy and declaration of need implies vulnerability And for some men, that in turn can mean facing their worst fears. As much as they may desire and truly need complete honesty, some men simply cannot be vulnerable and truthful. Not even with the one they love most in life. In fact, especially not with her.

For many a man with an undeveloped penis, it can be a solitary horror to discuss sexual issues with his wife. Certain matters assume 'official secret' status. He is loathe to admit his most intimate issues with 'her;' much less has he strength actually to discuss such things in detail. Instead, he wallows in secret inhibition and insecurity. 

Still, the temptation to openness and honesty with his wife is strong! But even as honesty tempts disclosure, fear and insecurity gnaw his resolve, paralyzing him in inaction. Try as he may, many a small man 'jams' when trying to host this conservation. No matter how much he wishes it, or how how hard he may try, he can never be honest about his desires with his wife. And as he can never be honest, he cannot mature sexually, and their sexual relationship cannot progress.

'...one of the things that has become abundantly clear and fascinates me to no end, is just how many small-endowed men crave this same fantasy. And, they don’t just want to watch their wives having sex with another man; they want the other man to be supremely more endowed and even better in bed. The fascinating question that must be asked is why do so many small-endowed men harbor this fantasy?'

The small-endowed man knows that his inability to discuss intimate matters with his wife is unmanly to the extreme. Yet he will not repair this because he cannot. Most likely, he neither wants to stop it, nor CAN he, since his cuckold fantasies compel an extremely powerful erotic response. These dynamics work together making it impossible for the small-endowed man to escape this conundrum. Consequently, it eats at him relentlessly.

Cuckold desire sticks. Once truly beholden to it, men don't abandon it. They do not shake this fetish. It is extremely addictive to them. Knowing this, some women put this knowledge to very good use. So do some well-endowed lovers who want to seduce and bed married women. They have even been known to elicit an under-endowed husband's perspective and help in delivering up his wife to be seduced by the stud.

Understanding these dynamics, some wives resolve their husband's dilemma for him. They broach the subject FOR their husbands. Then they arouse him with these thoughts in order to seduce and elicit his ardent consent for her to take a very well-endowed man.

Well-endowed men understand this.

So do other wives married to Mr. Little.

Do you?
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If you are a wife who wishes you could broach this with your husband, how do you feel about the fact that many small-endowed men share this fantasy?

If you are a small husband, is the fetish_suppression/fetish_arousal conundrum the irresistible temptation that draws you in time and time again, gradually wearing you down and eliciting your internal consent for your wife to experience the pleasure she deserves?