Weighing in on Penis Size

In this post, rougedmount weighs in on on of her favorite topics. But she does so from a less considered perspective, namely, 'weight.'
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do you know how heavy a big cock actually is? how much pressure is created from the weight of it pressed against you and from the thrusting of it, inside of you? this is something that i am not sure a heterosexual man, who is not well endowed, truly understands unless he has been given the opportunity to play with toys on his partner. not many ‘straight’ men have the opportunity to feel the weight of a penis, other than their own.

one of the toys i have is a 9 inch, heavily veined, white dildo complete with appropriately matching pendulous balls. this is the ‘go to’ toy that my spouse is attracted to, whenever i ask him to retrieve one from the toy box, to use on me. needless to say, because it is so dramatically different from his own small penis, i think it’s what creates his fascination with it. visually speaking, when he sees that my body can accommodate its entirety when i am aroused, it must make him intensely aware of the size difference between himself and the toy, as well as what I am physically capable of handling, sexually speaking.

it occurred to me that the weight of this large dildo has to be several pounds and the sensation of it while in his hand must be very different in comparison to his own. he left it inside of me after i came and he moved up so i could suck him to orgasm. the pressure inside of me was still there, even as my body was calming down. when he went to the washroom to bring me back a warm cloth, i pushed it from my body as i reached down to grasp it and the sheer weight of it surprised me.

clearly i was aware of the size difference between a large dildo and a small penis before now, but up until this morning i had not really thought about the heaviness, the weight, the volume it takes up when i am penetrated with it. thinking back on various partners i have had, i am now cognizant of the fact that the men who are heavily endowed possess this same weight factor and it is a contributor to the erotic sensations that bring about a physical response from me in ways that a small penis does not, or simply can not accomplish.

i think that for women who do not have sexual physical limitations, this difference could be a serious factor in who they decide to have a sexual relationship with. Some women need it or can ‘take it’ and others simply are not able to, for a variety of reasons. i think that the sheer weight of a large dildo or cock is as attractive to men as it is to women, from an aesthetics point of view. i also think that its a biological response as opposed to physical preference. we see bigger as better in our primitive brains.

if there were 2 dildos side by side, identical in every way except the weight, it is my supposition that the heavier of the two would be chosen in preference time and again because subconsciously we are drawn to the bigger one, even if the only difference is in weight alone. i think this must be part of the draw, especially for men who have a small penis, to use toys on their partners. it leads to a visual comparison between what they have and what she can take, as well as a subconscious one, when he feels the weight of another, heavier ,cock in his hand when he is used to his own much lighter one.

seeing his partner respond sexually to having sex with a big, heavy dildo, in ways vastly different than her response to his own smaller, lighter penis provides the evidence his psyche is looking for, which proves that a bigger cock creates a bigger response in a sexually responsive women. perhaps in his mind, it also proves that only an exceptionally erotic and sexually powerful woman is capable of handling a bigger cock as well; which arouses him because he has secured her, as his partner or mate. that must give him an ego boost to know he has been chosen over other men, with larger endowments,  when it’s obvious she could easily accommodate them.

along with his obvious sexual response to using large toys on a willing partner, it might also bring about the insecurity or fear that she will leave him, for one of these men who possess what he doesn’t have; a large cock. this conflict might initially create fear, which can be expressed as anger, that he would have to work through, to actually understand and accept his sexual response to her being fucked by larger cocks, even if they are just toys. it would require a man with a small penis to be confidant in himself and in his ability to pleasure his partner, as well as in the relationship stability itself.

Public Display of Arousal

This reposts a current article by rougedmount on one of her favorite topics. As ever, her words allow men to glimpse into the mind of a sensual woman. The effect is moving.
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You love being publicly teased and we both know that is what has fueled the fires of our flirting friendship for so many years. You like watching me dance and seeing other men notice me or make comments about how I move or what I look like. You are more than aware when my girlfriends notice you, noticing me and when you allow yourself to become aroused, it is more than obvious; the amusing problems of a well endowed man.

You enjoy my standing behind you as you are seated on a stool, leaning slightly against your shoulder so I can speak into your ear, with the pounding music making conversation impossible without proximity. Barely touching you, my sensual and suggestive words scratch slowly down your spine, as if it were a long dragging nail on bare skin and leave tingling zaps of electricity surging towards your groin.

The faster you breathe, the faster I can make your heart race, the easier it is for anyone to see the impressive engorgement swell through against your pants. The more taunt you become from contained public arousal, the more I chuckle with feminine ferocity and it inspires me to up my game. To whisper sinfully naughty things that make you shift in an attempt at discreet adjustment. Anyone who glances at us sees the obvious exchange of flirtation and then the double look makes them aware of the heightened arousal which is plainly evident.

Men want to be you. They can’t help but watch and wish it was them being teased. Some women become jealous of the attention you give me and they try to interfere with our little byplay and they become very aggressively suggestive, which turns you off to them completely. But other men are watching you rebuff them, as your eyes come back to me time and again, which makes them aware of the women to target; the overtly promiscuous ones looking for casual sex. Yet, now I hold greater fascination for them, as I am clearly wanted.

Men try and divert my attention to them as well, but it’s not as easy since I am normally with a group of friends and only the most confident will approach. I will laugh and talk with them, perhaps dance with them as we inevitably end up in your line of sight, but it’s not long until you make your presence known, is it? A raised eyebrow, perhaps coming over to ask me an iniquitous question. Occasionally, a glowering frown designed to advertise your extreme displeasure with a man who becomes too forward for your taste and you are tempted to interfere.

You love how other men want me and how I play gently with them, using them and their interest in me, to arouse you. You know I could leave with any of them, but won’t. You love how I am not intimidated by other women throwing themselves at you; how I find it amusing. But mostly you love that I make you hard and tease you publicly, knowing exactly the balance you need to feel completely wanted and not in control of anything, not even your own cock. It makes you want me all the more because I can whisper little words that leave you dripping and aching with need as I always push to the precipice of your patience so that your balls dangle over the edge just far enough so I can lick them, if I chose to.

So the answer my dear man, is yes. I will make time for you soon. It’s been a while since I bent your head to my will, as I made your cock stand for me, just so I could ignore it by acknowledging it’s very visible presence. Maybe if you are lucky, I’ll extend my oral skills to other tasks that will ensure the lock of my lips is the only cock ring you’ll ever need. It’s that very hope combined with the past experiences that make you drawn to keep returning to me. My curiously well endowed, little cuckold wanna be.

Penis Size Matters ...

No, women don't all agree. And some people, including women, take this unkindly. Author of today's post, Ashley Levine discovered this. She acknowledges this in a telling observation from her discussion with other women.
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by Ashley Levine

'I need a big penis to feel sexually satisfied. There, I wrote it. Size matters a great deal to me.'

At first I thought that size matters because I liked seeing a big penis. I would have visions of skyscrapers and baseball bats, and think to myself, wow, that’s a really big penis. I wonder how it’ll feel inside me.
And then I even debated over the theory that size matters because I have evolved as a woman to want a big penis because it comes with the belief that the owner of such a huge phallus will be able to impregnate me more easily than peewee.

But then it dawned on me: Size matters because I like big penises. They just feel amazing pressing against my vaginal walls. I never have to worry about not feeling it in certain positions or consistently having to tell this man that his penis is “not too small. No really, honey. It’s just right.”

Telling people why size matters

Whenever the penis topic arises with my girl friends, I am always met with mixed reactions. Some women think I am a big whore and sleep around considering size matters so much to me and I want such a big penis.

And the guys, oh man, the guys think that my vagina must be the size of a subway tunnel considering my penis preferences include the adjectives “big” and “thick.”

Having the size matters talk

But I’m not a whore and my vagina doesn’t rival the Grand Canyon. I’m just a girl who prefers big penises. My MO doesn’t include sleeping with a guy, discovering he has a toothpick for a penis and then bolting midway through faking an orgasm.

What I do is, after a few dates (before we’ve had sex), I bring up the topic of sex with my potential partner. After a mild conversation about what our preferences are, I casually ask how big he is. And in case you’re wondering, yes, they often overestimate. So I guess size matters to men as well.

But I do have a way of getting the truth out of him. I make it clear that size matters a great deal to me and I enjoy a big penis, and I go into detail about the length and girth preferred.

Usually, if a guy doesn’t meet the criteria, he becomes defensive (sometimes angry) and feigns losing interest in me. Others become shy and withdrawn. But the ones who meet the description I provide, lean back, open their legs and ask me if I’d like another drink.

Big penis problems

Of course, big penises aren’t always fists full of fun; they come with their own issues and drawbacks.

To begin with, a big penis is hard to swallow — literally. I’ve had to master the art of simultaneous masturbation and fellatio because I’m a gagger. By the time I’m four inches in, I’m already blocking my airways and he’s wondering when I’m going to take it all down.

As well, in certain sexual positions and during certain times of the month, a big penis sometimes hits my cervix and forces me to stop mid-sex and tend to my soreness.

Small penis experience

But the pros far outweigh the cons because I’ve tried a small penis and I knew from the moment I saw it how much size matters to me. This average-sized phallus wasn’t going to remain on my “to-do” list.

My first sexual experience was with a guy who was about 5” solid and, even though it was my first time, it didn’t hurt the way my friends were saying it would and I didn’t enjoy the experience at all.

But when I met Tony, that’s when I knew what I was lacking in my first relationship. Of course, I didn’t leave my first simply because he had a small penis, but it was part of the grand list of “things I can’t stand about you.”

Tony had it all: brains, beauty, and was hung like a horse. During our first sexual encounter, I had such a powerful orgasm that I cried. Life was coming up orgasms.
When I asked my friends about their penis preferences, they didn’t have much to say… at first. But after I described my experiences to them so openly, many of them began to come out of their shell and revealed their secret desires to go back to the big stuff. So, more often than not, size matters to most women.

Penis size matters

There are certain things that are deal breakers in relationships; if he cheats, steals from me, lies, or has a small penis, it’s not going to last. There’s nothing wrong with a small penis, per se, but sex is a very important part of my relationships and I don’t want to live unhappily. Life is way too short for that.

So finally, what is big? I’d say about 8″ long and 6″ in girth. I like my men solid and strong.
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It seems that when one woman becomes honest, others are empowered to speak. If such things truly matter to women, why not have the honesty to acknowledge it?

Men who Want their Wives to Experience Well-Endowed Men, One Woman's Perspective

Yesterday's repost from 'Hottie' and Steve now defunct LSP blog brought heavy responses. One was a reply from 'rougedmount.' She is remarkable for many reasons. Among these are a quick mind, brilliant pen, and a refusal to compromise truth as she sees it.

Rougedmount is always refreshing.

Sadly, rougedmount answers this not from the perspective of her husband, but explains rather why some husbands would want this for their wife. That said, she makes her case with remarkable force. 

Readers are welcome to submit comments on insights and experiences for inclusion on this page. No personal attacks are permitted. This is a safe place.
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Why does my husband want me to have “big cock sex?”

How about because he isn't a sexually selfish asshole who actually puts her sexual needs above his own need to claim sexual ownership of another person?

Why does my husband want me to have “big cock sex?”

How about because he is sexually aroused from the idea of it…insert for whatever freaking reason you want “here”.

Why does my husband want me to have “big cock sex?”

Because he values a healthy communication and physical relationship with a partner instead of hiding his true desires behind a façade of anger and resentment that he wears like a chastity belt inside the marriage bed?

It’s like saying, “Why does my husband want me to have sex with another woman?”

Well, no matter how much a man may want this, it’s not going to happen unless the WOMAN wants it. “Why does my husband want me to wear lingerie and stockings?” A woman won’t do it if it makes her feel like a whore, no matter how much her spouse may want it.

Why does my husband want me to have “big cock sex?”

How about because she fucking DESERVES to be happy in one teeny tiny aspect of her life when she sacrifices every. Single. Fucking. Thing. to make sure the entire family unit functions and his career succeeds and the bills are paid on time and the dog is walked and he has clean socks.

Why does my husband want me to have “big cock sex?”

Because it’s as different as having sex with a woman or masturbation…it’s just what it is! Nothing more, nothing less.

Sorry for the bit of a rant but I am suffering from severe sexual deprivation…but some men might notice that after 10-15-20 years of marriage, their wives “may” not be sexually satisfied and finally seek a solution for it while still staying married, and so they want her to have “big cock sex”.
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Why Does My Husband Want Me to Have Big Cock Sex?

Nothing is on the internet permanently. Sadly, the blog from which today's article is taken exists no longer. But here and there, a few posts were saved and submitted by other parties. Written by 'Hottie' and her husband, Steve, today's post is one such offering. All the text is original, but bold, red text was added for emphasis.
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by 'Hottie'

From Insecurity and Jealousy to Acceptance

'When my husband first revealed that he fantasized about wanting to watch me having sex with a well-endowed man, I was quite naturally surprised by his admission.  Prior to his small penis acceptance, Steve was somewhat insecure and jealous, and then, when he accepted his smallness, it’s as if a new “enlightened” Steve emerged from his shell. It took me awhile to adjust to this sudden and complete change in him.  But, I love the “new” Steve.'

Small-Endowed Men Especially Susceptible!

'I knew some men fantasized about wanting to watch their wives with other men, but one of the things that has become abundantly clear and fascinates me to no end, is just how many small-endowed men crave this same fantasy. And, they don’t just want to watch their wives having sex with another man; they want the other man to be supremely more endowed and even better in bed. The fascinating question that must be asked is why do so many small-endowed men harbor this fantasy? 

Why Do They Want It?

Many men on this blog, including Steve, have expressed this desire, but what we haven’t delved into was the why?  What drives and motivates them to crave this so much?'

'Because we have a good relationship, we have explored this topic together and had many enlightening conversations about it. I have to confess, I do love talking about this subject.  We both know it turns Steve on, but we wanted to know why it’s such a turn on for him.  As a result, we have developed a hypothesis as to why the idea is so appealing and exciting for him.  We believe it’s a combination of both a natural and biological reaction.  Let me explain.'

Instinctively Knows We Deserve More

'Steve already knows he has a small penis and accepts it. I know he has a small penis, but when I remind him of that fact, it really, really turns him on. As he has explained previously, it’s as if he knows instinctively that I deserve a man who has a more satisfactory cock size.  Some women on the blog have admitted that their husbands are too small to satisfy them, but their previous lovers, and now their larger dildos provide what their husbands can’t. For these couples, they have discovered that size does matter.

He Needs This

While our relationship is different in that Steve can satisfy me even with his very small penis, his internal truth is that he believes I could be even better satisfied by a larger male, who could offer me what he can’t.  We both believe his reaction is quite natural.'

'We have also discussed several articles and books on a wide variety of sexual topics.  Sexual selection and how we evolved as humans to live in groups was extremely interesting. We have also discussed Dr. David Ley’s book, “Insatiable Wives” which is excellent and describes the biology of women and their sexual needs.

Nature Intends It

Dr. Ley, also has a blog, “Why Women Stray,” where he also addressed the issue of sperm competition as follows:  “As Christopher Ryan, author Terry Gould, and researchers Baker and Bellis have suggested, there is a biological response playing out here, that affects a male sexual drive.  After watching their wife with another man, the husband is prompted biologically to have longer, more vigorous sex, has a shorter refractory period between erections, ejaculates harder, and his ejaculate contains more sperm.  Nearly every couple I interviewed told me that after an episode of the wife having sex with another man, the couple felt like they were “in heat.”'

He Can't Help It!

'What they described is exactly what happens to Steve every single time I use a dildo to pleasure myself. It may not be another man, but his strong reaction to it is almost identical and unbelievable. Even at the mere site of my dildo, Steve’s penis goes from 0 to 4 throbbing inches in a heartbeat. So is his response a biological reaction? We believe it may very well be both natural and biological, and this may explain why he craves it so much…he simply can’t help it.'

'Of course, others may feel it isn’t natural or biological at all, but whatever it is, this craving lies at the very heart of the small penis teasing, cock comparisons and fantasy cuckolding that so many small endowed men crave as well. Honestly, I didn’t get it at first.  I mean, why would a man want his partner to compare his underdeveloped penis with that of another male who is substantially more endowed? Wouldn’t he be ashamed, embarrassed or even humiliated? 

The Bigger the Stud, The Better Hubby Likes It

Surprisingly, the answer is quite the contrary for small endowed men; he usually becomes incredibly aroused. What’s even more fascinating is, the greater the size disparity between your husband and the male you are comparing him to, the more aroused he becomes, which I believe, cements the notion (in his mind) that you need and deserve more cock than he has.'

'Those of you who have been following this blog for any length of time know that I love my husband’s small 4” penis and am quite satisfied by it.  But, have I been fascinated by the descriptions women have provided on this blog as far as the advantages of big cock sex?  Yes, which is why I posed the recent question on the blog, “What am I missing?”  My hubby and I both find it fascinating.   Will I ever try a large one knowing it would turn my husband on if I did?  No, because I would never risk our relationship to try it, and we are both very comfortable with that decision.   It’s intriguing and fascinating, but I would never try it.  But, because I was curious, I encouraged my hubby to order his “Big Boy Cock” extension, to see what that feels like.  Granted, it wasn’t the real thing, but I have to admit I really enjoy it.  And of course, Steve really, really liked it too!'   :)

'To summarize, we do feel there is something very natural and/or biological that explains Steve’s strong reason for wanting this, but that may not be the case for you, or you may attribute your desire to something entirely different. So, how do the rest of you feel?  Do you believe the reason why smaller men crave this fantasy is a natural and/or biological response?  Or, do you attribute it to something else entirely. We’re sure others who peruse this blog will be curious to read your comments.'

Bigger WAS Better ...

This submission is from a woman whose husband's long desire for his wife to cuckold him finally comes to fruition. He was right in saying that the experience would be very good. That became the issue.

From 'B:'

'I did it! I had sex with another man and his wife, while my husband watched. I did it and it was great.'

'I was nervous, especially because the other guy's wife was there and she was joining in. But the two of them made a GREAT team! His creativity, passion, technique, staying power, endowment, thrill of the experience itself-all made it very, very good.'

'He was big and hard and oh my - so confident! He did not have any hesitation or worry about what to do.

He just took me in his arms like we had made love many times before and started on me like I was the only woman on earth. He started slowly and gave me time to accomodate his large cock. Then he got serious. He  also used his mouth both hands on me while also using his cock on me. She was also using her hands and her mouth on me at the same time. It was just sensory overload and I lost control of my body.'

'The guy was really, really good (WOW! SWEET BABY!) in bed! In no time flat, he had me bucking and squealing like my hubby never has and [sadly] probably never will. That was the problem. I got too expressive compared to what I normally do with my hubby. But I couldn't help it! Anyway, this made my hubby mad and later he told me we would never do it again.'

'I was really reluctant to do this in the first place. But he just had this fantasy about how great it would be to see me brought off by another guy. I resisted hard. But he begged me and pleaded with me to do this for such a long time! Finally, I gave in and did it for him, because I wanted him to be happy.'

'Originally, the agreement was that after he watched me getting it, he would do both us women. Then when he actually saw it happening he got jealous because he had never seen me act like that or get so noisy with him. Maybe if he had gone first, it would have been different. I wish it was. Straight sex with him is pretty boring now. And even though I try to hide it, I think he knows this.'

'So even though her man took me, and even though she is much more beautiful than I am (she is gorgeous), my hubby refused to take her. He was intimidated -- by that, I mean more than a little intimidated -- by the other guy's performance, the size of his equipment, and how he took complete control of me. I think he lost his confidence about doing the other guy's woman and his ability to satisfy her. And from my experience, I'd have to say that he would probably be right.'

'So even though her man took me, and even though she is much more beautiful than I am, my hubby refused to take her. He had me get dressed and we left. The other couple was not happy since she did not get hers so to speak. But this hurts me also because I really miss it and now I just ache for it.'
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This wife admits sadly that likely, she will never experience anything near the pleasure and satisfaction she is capable of experiencing. She hurts and aches for more. How is it right that she should hurt, ache and suffer because of this? Has she not the right to all she is capable of experiencing? Would you encourage him to recognize this?

If you are a woman or a wife, would you understand her resentment or disappointment at this outcome? If you are a man, would you be intimidated or aroused by this experience?

Do you care for your wife enough to facilitate her deeply-felt need? Wouldn't a better response be for him to approach the couple with an apology, to admit that this stud is the better man, and to put this relationship right? How would you council this husband?

If this experience resonated with you in any way, post a reply!
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Arousal Changes Us...

This is the last of several posts based on an internet forum thread in which a husband-to-be explains that he is glad for his fiancé to be sexed by a younger and much better endowed male.

In two previous posts, an evangelical Christian wife learns to reject her church prejudices. There, she said that her pastor blames marital breakdown on adultery. Yet here, her passion for this marriage grows even as she visualizes the love triangle. Her description is congested with her own arousal. How ironic that churches stand against the best that can be found in marriage!

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Evangelical Gal:

'I think that any church you and your wife join will call what she does ‘adultery.’ Admittedly, it's a simple-minded definition and it allows no wiggle-room; but that's what you'll encounter if you join a church.'

'After reading our posts and giving it a LOT of thought, I still believe what I said before: her physical relationship with the young man isn't ‘adultery’ and shouldn't be called that since neither of you is cheating on the other. You just both are giving the other what they want.'

'You aren't just "tolerating" her extra-marital relationship, which would be wonderful enough; Christ, you actually GET OFF on it, so she's giving you that thrill as a part of your marriage relationship. And you're giving HER the thrill of mounting that much younger guy with that huge cock!!!!!'

'I also agree with you that his standing with you as your best man really is mind-blowing. It sexualizes your entire wedding, overtly and beautifully. You may need to be careful about who you tell about the true paternity of the child in the bride’s womb, but that level of care depends directly on how much embarrassment you're willing to deal with, or how much humiliation you crave.'

'You strike me as wanting as much as the two of them can pile on you, so maybe the more people you tell, the better, and maybe the more sexually overt they get during the ceremony, the happier you'll be.'

'The idea of them aching for each other's naked bodies as the minister reads the vows and announces you as husband and wife makes me wet. Might I suggest another filthy flaunting of wedding ceremony tradition? Get your fiancée to work on adding something personal to her vows that is directed at her lover and her relationship with him. Since they and you intend to continue their relationship into your marriage, it would be exciting for all three of you to acknowledge that arrangement somehow. And it would be fucking HOT!'

Tasting and Converting to New Things.

Raised in life-long commitment to church, this evangelical wife has heard frequent diatribes against adultery. Yesterday’s post shows a shift in attitude. As her perspective continues to change, today’s post shows a definitive break from her church rants. And her perspective and attitude shift for interesting reasons and in interesting ways.

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Evangelical Gal:

‘We are a Christian family. I was raised in the Lutheran church. I began attending my husband's non-denominational evangelical church after we married. We are raising our children in that church. Our pastor speaks about adultery frequently. Like most Christian ministers, he always points to adultery as the primary cause of the decline of the modern family. Members of our congregation who cheat on their spouses frequently become outcasts from this church. This isn’t by conscious effort, but they just receive less attention. I have always felt that this attitude was wrong. Besides, it leaves out the element of forgiveness that the church is supposed to be about.’

‘But after reading and re-reading your posts, I now object to the church's attitude for another more substantive reason. I've thought that adultery was just wrong per se. But you have shown me that it's wrong in most situations because it is selfish: the one who cheats on his/her spouse almost always puts his/her own desires before those of the spouse.’

‘But that is absolutely and completely NOT what you are doing, or what she is doing. You are going waaaaaay out of your way to elevate her pleasure and satisfaction above your own, ignoring your own altogether, and she is allowing you to experience the joy of giving freedom and excitement to her.’

‘Admittedly, this relationship could not be replicated in more than a small handful of situations, but to call what you and she are doing ‘adultery’ or to say it is wrong – much less to call it ‘sin’ – would be to ignore the utter beauty of it and to disregard your selflessness…’

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Reading and re-reading posts shows that these new ideas made sense to this wife. As her thoughts reorganized around the new things she learned, old prejudices fell away. Her view of ‘adultery’ matured, and she outgrew her church. She now ‘corrects’ her church, and does so for more than shunning adulterers or forgetting forgiveness.

Seeing ‘Cuckold-to-be’ elevate his fiancé’s pleasure and satisfaction, seeing him ignore his own satisfaction while allowing her freedom to find excitement and joy, this wife is arrested by one, inescapable fact: this arrangement between this man, his fiancé and her lover brings to the fore the very best of what marriage is SUPPOSED to be.

By implication, her church – which supposedly supports marriage – regularly regards this activity as the downfall of marriage. This woman finds that she can no longer call this ‘adultery’ or ‘sin.’ By implication, she disagrees with her church, which ignores the ‘utter beauty’ of it while disregarding this man’s selflessness.

This wife is having a second ‘conversion.’ Proof? She closes this post with:

‘…AND OH MY DEAR SWEET MOTHER OF CHRIST, the way you describe making him a part of your wedding!!! OH MY GOD!!! AS BEST MAN!!! You have hit on such a perfect and sweet and heavenly idea with that, and I can't imagine how you arrived at that, but it's incredibly beautiful, and I think it's something you really MUST do. Enjoy!!!’

This Evangelical wife has tasted new things, and she has seen that they are good.

Have you?

Surprising Turn and Changing Attitudes...

Yesterday, Cuckoldrix Awakening re-posted a discussion from a man who consents for his fiancé to enjoy regular sex from a younger, more virile and clearly more capable lover. That was followed by several responses posted as women. One of those was posted yesterday.

Today, the ‘cuckold-in-waiting’ is given a voice. This is followed by a response from another woman. Posting as an evangelical Christian, this second woman admits to long-standing prejudices against such behavior. But the account of this ‘cuckold-in-waiting’ began to change her attitude. This becomes more apparent in several other posts.

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From Cuckold-in-Waiting

'She loves her young lover’s big cock and she can’t get enough of it or him. I really can’t satisfy her sexually … so I'm really glad that he can, that she's happy and that I am also. Her happiness is the most important thing to me. I do love her unconditionally and she loves me, after all she wouldn't have said ‘yes’ when I proposed to her.'

'I only have a little cock and his cock is very impressive, I can't blame my fiancé wanting it inside her and him fucking her with it, if she ever wanted me to suck it and have him cum in my mouth and he was ok with that then I would do that for her if it made her happy, I'll do anything to make her happy.'

'I want her pregnant with his baby or babies … I really can’t wait for him to impregnate her. Hopefully she will be showing on our wedding day. I want us to make our vows with her young lover beside me as my best man. I want him to know that it is his child she is carrying. I really will do anything for her and I will try to be the best husband I can and I will be good to her. She is gorgeous and an amazing woman. She is so very, very sexy and I'm very fortunate she is going to be my wife. I'm truly and so much in love with her and its wonderful for me.'

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From Evangelical Gal:

'I am unbelievably surprised, but I actually find incredible beauty and lovingness in the way you write about your fiancés pregnancy and the wedding. I’m surprised as I am a church-going wife and mother of three children. For obvious reasons, I always frowned on adultery. But you are clearly in love with this girl! Clearly, you want ONLY what is best for her and ONLY what she wants. Clearly, you are eliminating your own interests from any consideration. All this is just amazing.'

'I suppose I could say you’re doing what's best for the younger man also. I mean, I'm no prude or cloistered wife. I've heard of open and polyandrous relationships. I've heard of the idea of cuckolding. But you are FAR beyond ALL that in that your only desire is for your fiancés happiness.'

'Reading your writing, I actually feel the heat, the sexuality – and the love – of a girl walking down the aisle toward one man while carrying in her belly the child of another. I feel it as if it were me … knowing that the man I'm about to marry not only allows me to experience love with another man, to be impregnated by him, and to continue that throughout our marriage; I understand that he actually wanted and planned this to happen! I feel it as if he actually arranged for me to be sexed over and over again by this very powerful, sexually satisfying man with the intent that he would make me pregnant!'

'And he did another thing: he actually scheduled our wedding to maximize the exposure of my sexuality and my love for the other YOUNGER man… Christ.....the whole thing just makes me weak. And wet.'

'Your fiancé is a very, very, very lucky girl. I wish you both well.'

Hot for Ryan...

An internet forum tells of a husband-to-be who believes that he is not able to satisfy his fiancé. He explains that his fiancé regularly enjoys sex with another man. 

This other man's penis is much larger than his own. He is a better lover and he gives her much better sex.

This husband-to-be is very excited sexually that his fiancé wears his engagement ring, while another man regularly wears her out and leaves her sated with pleasure that he could never give her. He wants this arrangement to continue even after their marriage. And he wants to include this other man in their marriage ceremony.

A number of posters responded positively to this. So apparently, it struck a nerve. Among those were several posters reporting as women. Some of those responses will be the basis of the next several posts. Grammar has been adjusted for readability, but care has been taken to preserve the meaning of the text as it was posted.

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'Somehow, I wish you could talk to my husband and convince him to let me have Ryan. Ryan works for him, and we are hot for each other. We want each other so bad! He is several years younger than me. He is even younger than my husband's son by his third marriage. When we’re together, we flirt. We have played ‘kissy-face’ and ‘rub-rub’ when nobody at the office was there to see us. I wish my husband thought like you do! Then Ryan and I could really go at it seriously!'

'I have even thought about eventually having Ryan's baby. I've thought about how hot it would be to fling with him for a while, then have a real affair, and then have him make me pregnant. But I don't know if I could start that. I think my husband would see how hot Ryan gets me whenever we’re together. I'm just afraid that if I let it start, I wouldn’t be able to control myself with Ryan. I’d end up mounting him every time we were together.'

'Still, my husband knows that I play with other men; but he doesn't know when or with whom. And I don't tell him because he doesn't want to know. He wants it private to cause him no embarrassment in the business world, or at church, or among friends.'

'So far I've been very good at that. If I did something and my husband knew, I might be in trouble. But reading these posts and seeing how lucky your girl is – that makes me think seriously about Ryan and how delicious he is [and a few others also]. If Ryan really made a serious move on me, I doubt I could resist, especially since I think Ryan has (oh my!) ................a gigantic cock, like her boyfriend. LUCKY!!!!!!!! So what you’re doing makes me want to be like your girl!'
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