In this post, rougedmount weighs in on on of her favorite topics. But she does so from a less considered perspective, namely, 'weight.'
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do you know how heavy a big cock actually is? how much pressure is
created from the weight of it pressed against you and from the thrusting
of it, inside of you? this is something that i am not sure a
heterosexual man, who is not well endowed, truly understands unless he
has been given the opportunity to play with toys on his partner. not
many ‘straight’ men have the opportunity to feel the weight of a penis,
other than their own.
one of the toys i have is a 9 inch, heavily veined, white dildo
complete with appropriately matching pendulous balls. this is the ‘go
to’ toy that my spouse is attracted to, whenever i ask him to retrieve
one from the toy box, to use on me. needless to say, because it is so
dramatically different from his own small penis, i think it’s what
creates his fascination with it. visually speaking, when he sees that my
body can accommodate its entirety when i am aroused, it must make him
intensely aware of the size difference between himself and the toy, as
well as what I am physically capable of handling, sexually speaking.
it occurred to me that the weight of this large dildo has to be
several pounds and the sensation of it while in his hand must be very
different in comparison to his own. he left it inside of me after i came
and he moved up so i could suck him to orgasm. the pressure inside of
me was still there, even as my body was calming down. when he went to
the washroom to bring me back a warm cloth, i pushed it from my body as i
reached down to grasp it and the sheer weight of it surprised me.
clearly i was aware of the size difference between a large dildo and a
small penis before now, but up until this morning i had not really
thought about the heaviness, the weight, the volume it takes up when i
am penetrated with it. thinking back on various partners i have had, i
am now cognizant of the fact that the men who are heavily endowed
possess this same weight factor and it is a contributor to the erotic
sensations that bring about a physical response from me in ways that a
small penis does not, or simply can not accomplish.
i think that for women who do not have sexual physical limitations,
this difference could be a serious factor in who they decide to have a
sexual relationship with. Some women need it or can ‘take it’ and others
simply are not able to, for a variety of reasons. i think that the
sheer weight of a large dildo or cock is as attractive to men as it is
to women, from an aesthetics point of view. i also think that its a
biological response as opposed to physical preference. we see bigger as
better in our primitive brains.
if there were 2 dildos side by side, identical in every way except
the weight, it is my supposition that the heavier of the two would be
chosen in preference time and again because subconsciously we are drawn
to the bigger one, even if the only difference is in weight alone. i
think this must be part of the draw, especially for men who have a small
penis, to use toys on their partners. it leads to a visual comparison
between what they have and what she can take, as well as a subconscious
one, when he feels the weight of another, heavier ,cock in his hand when
he is used to his own much lighter one.
seeing his partner respond sexually to having sex with a big, heavy
dildo, in ways vastly different than her response to his own smaller,
lighter penis provides the evidence his psyche is looking for, which
proves that a bigger cock creates a bigger response in a sexually
responsive women. perhaps in his mind, it also proves that only an
exceptionally erotic and sexually powerful woman is capable of handling a
bigger cock as well; which arouses him because he has secured her, as
his partner or mate. that must give him an ego boost to know he has been
chosen over other men, with larger endowments, when it’s obvious she
could easily accommodate them.
along with his obvious sexual response to using large toys on a
willing partner, it might also bring about the insecurity or fear that
she will leave him, for one of these men who possess what he doesn’t
have; a large cock. this conflict might initially create fear, which can
be expressed as anger, that he would have to work through, to actually
understand and accept his sexual response to her being fucked by larger
cocks, even if they are just toys. it would require a man with a small
penis to be confidant in himself and in his ability to pleasure his
partner, as well as in the relationship stability itself.
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