Desperate with Desire, Tormented by Timidity!

For husbands with secret, cuckold desire based on their diminutive penis, sexual honesty requires admitting three truths.

1] Your reluctance to tell your wife of your desire touches on your DEEP insecurities.

2] Your wife’s discovery of your cuckold desire would be a HUGE relief for you!

Fearful Insecurity ... HUGE Relief. Fearful Insecurity ... HUGE Relief.

You NEED to Tell Her

Deep down, many small husbands want and need to come clean and level with their wives about this cuckold need. As one small husband said:

‘I'm 42 and married. My wife has never discussed penis size with me but I'd love to (we'd have to be pretty wasted).

She has no idea that I'm the guy hugging the porcelain in public restrooms because my size is "la puny mushroom."

Do I look? Of course! And every so often, I'm shamed, exhilarated, validated-WHATEVER- by a glimpse of much more than I'll ever have.

What would my wife think or say if she knew that I peek compulsively and am insecure? I wonder. I’m thinking of telling her (a bit at a time) to get her reactions and comments.  Any suggestions on how to do it?’

Yes. But for now, read what another guy said when asked... “would you dare to show your wife internet pix of guys in the ‘wonder of nature’ class, and see where that leads?”

His reply?

‘The thought turns me on now but my wife has never seen or touched another cock but mine; what if she really got curious after seeing pics of ones bigger than me? Plus she might tease me afterwards. I would like to somehow maybe get her to see a few pics though just out of curiosity.'

See how boys with tiny toys talk?
In just a few lines, we get…

She has no idea...

We’ve never talked about it...

The thought turns me on but…

What if she really got curious...

Shamed, exhilarated, validated...

I would like to somehow maybe...

What if she teased me afterwards...

Any suggestions on how to tell her…

I want her reactions and comments...

Pix...just a few...to see her reaction…

Never talked about…but I’d love to…
I compulsively peak and am insecure...

I’m thinking of telling her–a bit at a time...

Sense a little insecurity here? 

Compulsive fascination? 

Anguish? 

Many small-endowed men are consumed by fantasies of being cuckolded. They fantasize of their wife with a man who has a truly man-sized penis.

He DREADS Your Discovery!

Many small husbands want desperately to explain their cuckold desire with their wife. But they're also terrified at her potential reaction!

What if she teases me–-isn’t that just like a little boy!

What if she saw a real man and “got really curious?”

Well so what?

So what if she "got really curious?" Small men certainly are! And it's not by decision or choice. It's extremely and inescapably erotic for them. It's a reaction. It is completely compulsory. Many men are utterly helpless to 'turn it off.'

So on one hand, it's fine for Mr. Little to be consumed by such thoughts and desires. But Mrs. Little isn’t supposed to know that he has huge issues with his tiny penis?

Why the hypocrisy? Why the double standard?

'Oh but if she knew how men are, what other men are like, how could I compete?'

That's the kicker. Why?

It’s because having a small penis does weird things to a man’s mind. But why shouldn’t wives know this? 

Just so small husbands won’t be able to hide their little secret any longer, let’s list some of those issues here.

That way, wives everywhere can read and learn what small husbands think and fantasize about constantly, but are loathe to admit and won’t tell her otherwise.

• A small penis makes many men feel deeply and shamefully unmanly.
• A small penis makes many men keenly aware of their sexual limitations. 
• A small penis makes many men feel awed by and respectful toward very well-endowed men.
• A small penis makes many men highly susceptible to cuckold fantasies.
• A small penis makes many men extremely aroused by thoughts of their wife being seduced.
• A small penis makes many men extremely aroused when they see their wife potential cuckolding him.
• A small penis makes many men very submissive when well endowed men interacts with his wife.
• A small penis makes many it impossibly difficult for many men to be sexual honesty with his wife.
• A small penis makes many men vulnerable to his wife's sexual direction.
• A small penis makes many men vulnerable to helping a well endowed man seduce his wife.

Note well -- a small penis MAKES under-endowed men feel these things. So many times, they simply can't help it. They're powerless NOT to react those ways. So often, it’s as if their small size programs them to accept it.

Most husbands will act decisively if another man makes overtures toward his wife. But if a man he knows is virile and very well-endowed approaches her, a small husband’s issues can very powerfully sabotage his ability to intervene and stop his own cuckolding.

Some have watched, paralyzed in wonder, envy and deep admiration, as a stud expertly and effortlessly took charge of his wife’s sexual response right under his nose. To Mr. Little, this is like seeing sex as it is supposed to be. He feels it i inappropriate to intervene. And often, his own arousal rages out of control as he watches her beautifully seduced, while he himself is helpless to act to stop it.

At the very least, his ability to 'protect his interests' may be very seriously sabotaged.

There are several reasons for this.

1] He may be so overwhelmed by submissive feelings that he can mount no real or effective resistance. The power and eroticism of the moment washes out his masculine energy. He senses that Nature intends for him to step aside and allow a very well endowed man to fulfill this purpose by giving his wife what he cannot give her. Some small men feel this is what the well endowed man is supposed to do. Because he can.

2] He may fear provoking a sexual contest that, as an under endowed man, he can only lose. He may fear being 'outed.' If he tries to stop it, the stud may shame him for his inferiority and inability to satisfy his own wife. He may point Mrs. Little to hubby’s tiny erection, explain his cuckold desire to her, and use that to seduce her. And if he says Mr. Little obviously wants her to compare erections? Mr. Little may decide that non-resistance is his 'safest' bet.

3] To his own amazed horror, Mr. Little may be deeply aroused! And it’s all quite remarkable. A stud effortlessly bypasses Mrs. Little’s boundaries. Mr. Little sees it. But just when a strong, decisive, masculine reply is needed, he instantly floods with powerful feelings and emotions of fear, envy, astonishment, insecurity, anxiety, fascination, intrigue, submission, respect and more.

Confused and disoriented, a lifetime of insecurities rise to demand resolution, while his astonished eyes fixate all his attention on what is happening in front of him! He has no time to process anything, no idea how to act or what to do. And he discovers that he is powerless to do anything. So he watches in complete helplessness as the well endowed man plies his wife’s sex and makes her desire mount.

The under endowed husband can’t compete, can’t deny his arousal, and can’t stop this seduction. He is desperate to see it and learn as the well endowed man passes boundary after boundary. He remains passive as the well endowed man arouses his wife and does as he wants.

Endowed men and small men alike have long understood these things. When they discover them, the wives of under endowed men are greatly empowered.

Stuck Between Insecurity and Relief

Men with tiny sex organs are hyper-aware of their sexual limitations. This relates is their complete lack of courage to discuss this with his wife. But that very timidity confirms his shame and sense of a lack of manliness.

This leads to an intriguing question. It's one that small-endowed husbands ought to consider. This is unless you're the wife, and then maybe YOU should ask it: 

With which is it easier to live:

• Fearful insecurity with no escape OR
• Risk with a potential for HUGE relief?

Tiny husbands often want desperately to share their feelings with the woman they love. But they are terrified to start that conversation!

Typically, such guys not only NEED this discussion, they deeply BELIEVE all these things. But he fears his wife may take real offense at his feelings. He fears she won't take this seriously. And he fears that she will take it very seriously.

Under-endowed men know that their small penis issues translate into immense, sexual power for wives IF they understand the issues. Whether or not wives use this knowledge, just knowing it gives wives enormous sexual power. That puts small men in a powerful, erotic bind.

On one hand, he craves for his wife to be a sexually powerful woman. That arouses him supremely! But he is also terrified that she'll put her new-found discoveries to the test! Her exploring his issues will arouse him more! That flaming arousal in turn predisposes him to ACCEPT her continued exploration of his issues, and seeking well endowed men for mind-blowing sexual pleasures.

The combination of fear and burning desire is extremely erotic for under-endowed men. This circle of fear and arousal confirms everything he believes about his own inadequacy. That makes his beliefs even more compelling and real! The husband with a childishly small penis is caught in multiple submissive and erotic binds from which there is no escape. 

He can't give women what well-endowed men do because he doesn't have it to give. He believes it's natural and almost inevitable that well-endowed men pair with powerful, sexually aggressive women. Yet the idea of a powerful, sexually aggressive wife enthralls him. No matter what he does, he can't shake these feelings and dynamics. 

He desires desperately to discuss this. But timidity cows him into silence. He craves it, yet recoils from it. It's tormenting and very unmanly. And astonishingly, it's due entirely to his having a tiny penis.

Wouldn’t honesty be easier?

Wouldn't honesty be better?

Why not get this into the open and be done with it? 

And really, shouldn’t wives know? Most know or suspect anyway.

It's Time to Act

Why prolong this with the "thousand hints" path? Isn't this "official secret" a heavy burden? Why agonize endlessly over a little penis?

Men loathe compulsive insecurity. The only manly way forward is to move from fearful insecurity to disclosure. And that would be a HUGE relief. Small men must face this hurdle to mature in their manhood. There IS no other way forward.

This brings us to the third truth required of little guys with secret, cuckold desires.

3. Honesty means being man enough to tell her about your cuckold fantasy!

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Touch any nerves? Do you know that should read this? Suppose your wife discovered this page. Would you find this a little unsettling? Would you be aroused by it? Imagine finding this on the computer screen and her asking your thoughts on it. Imagine getting an instant erection, and her asking you to explain what that meant.

Again, suppose that a man who finds your attractive wife attractive reads this blog. Why wouldn't he email her the link to this page? Or perhaps you WISH someone would send her that link, because you HAVE to discuss this -- but jam EVERY time you try to raise it.

In the end, there is this about the 'small penis as an official secret:'

• Staying where you are isn't manly.
• It disgusts you, and rightly so.
• Chances are, she'll be better with it than you.
• You ache for this HUGE relief.

So what is your next move? Why not post a reply?